I have had some emails asking where we got the spanking bench. Evan bought this for me at http://www.bdgsales.com/bench.html for around $400 a few years ago. This is a very well-built bench. Evan is over 200 lbs, and the bench holds him very easily with no visible wear and tear, even after many uses. We haven't tried possible competitor benches, so we don't know if our bench is either the best value or the best quality out there. But it has served us very well, and so we definitely recommend it.
Regarding my lexan paddle, it's 3/8" thick, with holes in it (which I doubt make any difference to the effect, but they look menacing). Evan got this for me from http://www.paddlewerks.com/ . I don't know if this paddle is unbreakable, but I have not been able to damage it in any way while striking Evan's bottom. I think it will win in a battle against Evan's behind.
Finally, one commenter asked if I shave Evan's behind. No, that's just his natural bald bottom state. He is not a very hairy man, except on his head. He has a little bit of hair on his bottom, but it's not visible in those camera shots.
Thanks for all the kind comments. Yes, Evan and I do have a good time together.
Talk to you more soon,