As many of you have noticed, I am trying Evan on longer-term orgasm denial. This is not as a punishment for Evan: this is just because I have noticed that Evan behaves better in general when he is horny. It's been three weeks now, and Evan's behavior has been exemplary. I milked his prostate after 2 weeks (on the bench last week), and now I think it's about time for another milking. I think I will milk him once per week, following the initial 2 week buildup, and I will see how that goes.
We have actually experimented with orgasm denial in the past, and we used to find that Evan gets too horny after a week or 10 days to be productive at work. However, this time, things seem to be different. Now that I am strict with Evan, I have been spanking him a lot for misbehavior, which includes whining about wanting a release. A hard spanking before bed seems to get rid of his erection just as well as an ejaculation does. So far so good: most critically for me, I want to see how Evan's work progresses. As long as he gets a sufficient amount accomplished at his work, I will continue this experiment. I think I will keep him like this for at least another couple of weeks. But if that goes well, I am not sure I will give him an orgasm then: I just don't know how it will progress at this point. I don't want to make plans without seeing the results of this pilot experiment.
I am very much enjoying reaping the rewards of the stricter version of me. I have taken to have Evan give me massages 2-3 times per week, before bed. I adore massages, so I don't know why I didn't take advantage of our relationship in this respect years ago. In any case, I take off all my clothes except my panties, and have Evan give me a full rub down. Eventually, my panties usually come down too, because Evan gives me a deep lower back / upper bottom massage. And the massages make me very relaxed and horny. As soon as I am satisfied with the massage, I often have Evan lick my pussy to orgasm (as I have mentioned before, he is wonderful at this). He always has a big erection after all this close sexual contact, and sometimes I will let him fuck me for a while from behind (my favorite) because it feels so good (especially after an orgasm). But, at the moment I am not allowing him to orgasm this way (or any way), so I have been careful of only having a short fuck post-cunnilingus. In fact, I am a little worried that he will have a spontaneous fast ejaculation while fucking me one of these times. I am trying to avoid that by milking his prostate regularly. So far so good!
Here are some more photos of Evan's recent bench spanking. As you can see, I like holding his penis when he is on the bench, when I spank him. This gives him mixed signals, and I enjoy the reaction. Eventually the pain of the spanking wins out, but it takes a while for the blood to drain from his swollen penis: I enjoy the hard spanks I can give him while he still has a hard erection.
|I have a good grip on this situation. (Sorry.)|
|I love to squeeze this thing. What a great toy!|
|Some gentle touches to the tip. (You can see that this was actually earlier in the spanking: there are just a few red welts from my paddle here.)|
|That will leave a mark!|
|I can spank Evan while holding his penis out of the way (not that this is strictly necessary). You can see by my arm and the ripple on Evan's bottom that this was a hard spank.|
|Here comes another hard one, Evan!|