tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203514222876498689.post2461124311408785087..comments2024-03-21T07:16:20.215-07:00Comments on Spanking My Husband: ImplementsDeirdre above Evanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14304678551568025850noreply@blogger.comBlogger19125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203514222876498689.post-83162437120813747482010-04-25T13:50:59.434-07:002010-04-25T13:50:59.434-07:00Hi LDD-4-Me:
I see that I was wrong about the thi...Hi LDD-4-Me:<br /><br />I see that I was wrong about the thickness of my lexan paddle: it's only 3/8" thick (which is definitely thick enough, anyway). I edited my post accordingly. Sorry for my confusion.<br /><br />D.Deirdre above Evanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14304678551568025850noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203514222876498689.post-38292648578925829702010-04-25T10:30:11.495-07:002010-04-25T10:30:11.495-07:00Just found your blog... Keep up the good work!
Y...Just found your blog... Keep up the good work! <br /><br />You mention having a 3/4" thick lexan paddle. That sounds VERY thick, where did you get that?<br /><br />We too seem to like the wooden paddles, they are very effective. We have a hairbrush shaped oak paddle that's about 3/4" thick and it's VERY wicked, it can be used for moderate or severe pain. <br /><br />Rubber paddles can be wicked too, they seem to get a good 'bite' of skin.<br /><br />Most wicked OTK implement we have might have to be the bathbrush that I shortened to about 14" long, it can be used light for sting or heavy for a thud that might still be felt a few days later.LDD-4-Mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17653656108833013461noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203514222876498689.post-55392042204622254522010-01-28T07:44:53.750-08:002010-01-28T07:44:53.750-08:00Hello Deidre,
I noticed your "reply" to...Hello Deidre,<br /><br />I noticed your "reply" to a comment you thought I had left. (That was actually a fellow named "a spanked husband" . . . . not me.) As you can see, I do drop in on your blog fairly often, but I would never suggest you start caning Evan, lol.<br /><br />spanked_husbandspanked_husbandnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203514222876498689.post-5644084268177624902010-01-26T14:27:48.187-08:002010-01-26T14:27:48.187-08:00....from a recipients point of view OTK is definat.......from a recipients point of view OTK is definatley the most satisfying position from which to make amends, you offer your bottom up in a sacrificial way that you don't quite do bending over (as for the cane), have an intimate contact with your spanker, and get to kick your legs when it starts to hurt (I find this helps!!)....so I've never seen the fasciantion with canes myself....and purpose made paddles are all well and good but don't underestimate the effectivness of a good Hairbrush, and you can leave it out on the dressing table!!<br /><br />RAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203514222876498689.post-43271343471419303472010-01-24T08:44:56.243-08:002010-01-24T08:44:56.243-08:00Hi Deirdre & Evan,
I agree with you OTK with ...Hi Deirdre & Evan,<br /><br />I agree with you OTK with paddle is the best and most effective of all. I know many people love the cane, but especially for husband and wife OTK is much more intimate and personal yet effective. Your view of discipline very much mirrors mine, I like OTK, I like the fact that you spank him hard and spank any erection out of him. I like it then when the spanking is over you give him a loving squeeze, and hug. I like the fact that you maintain complete control over him through out the discipline, but when it is over you are loving, but do not allow pleasure to be part of his discipline. If you get pleasure from it (and I suspect you do) so much the better. Keep up the good work, and yes I do love seeing more pics of you disciplining your man :)<br /><br />Your biggest fan,<br />Daveoverherlaphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15045178870033200389noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203514222876498689.post-44557425026127620742010-01-23T11:30:01.378-08:002010-01-23T11:30:01.378-08:00Deirdre,
I am glad you enjoyed my post. One day ...Deirdre,<br /><br />I am glad you enjoyed my post. One day when I have time, I'll write more about our experiences, but as a proverbial soccer mom with two boys I am so busy! Basically my husband Rich just has this craving for discipline, and I have no problem giving it to him.<br /><br />SueAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203514222876498689.post-49531564741363022982010-01-23T10:24:08.163-08:002010-01-23T10:24:08.163-08:00Thanks to you all for all the comments. I appreci...Thanks to you all for all the comments. I appreciate them, as always. I put my responses in the bottom of the post.<br /><br />Deirdre.Deirdre above Evanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14304678551568025850noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203514222876498689.post-45674588293393225302010-01-23T02:28:55.234-08:002010-01-23T02:28:55.234-08:00Saw your post in Fetlife and came over to check yo...Saw your post in Fetlife and came over to check you out. I enjoyed reading it I'll be back for more :-)<br /><br />Ardor<br /><br />http://www.ardorotica.com <br />Femdom, CFNM & NIP stories <br />http://www.twitter.com/ardoroticaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203514222876498689.post-54027656662354020002010-01-22T17:47:39.772-08:002010-01-22T17:47:39.772-08:00Caning ability, like everything else, comes with p...Caning ability, like everything else, comes with practice. You might try covering his lower back, and upper legs so that if you strike them it won't hurt. Then you can swing away just as hard as you like.a spanked husbandhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14492592783533850796noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203514222876498689.post-2798817059854976322010-01-22T14:00:34.448-08:002010-01-22T14:00:34.448-08:00Dierdre,
I agree with you on the paddle being bes...Dierdre,<br /><br />I agree with you on the paddle being best. My husband was spanked otk with a paddle on his bare bottom as a boy by his stepmom and we both agree this is the most effective way for me to spank him.<br /><br />SueAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203514222876498689.post-87279988963569353662010-01-22T13:07:22.925-08:002010-01-22T13:07:22.925-08:00Wdspoone's comment is so true. Something that...Wdspoone's comment is so true. Something that is deeply embarassing is to be partially clothed,wearing a shirt but with slacks/shorts pulled down and bottom bared for punishment. For reasons not fully thought out, the emotional vulnerabilty is so much higher than when I am nude. <br /><br />Again, grateful for the blog; anxiously await future posts.<br /><br />jmAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203514222876498689.post-86338048864754403632010-01-22T12:48:59.939-08:002010-01-22T12:48:59.939-08:00Deirdre,
It sounds like you and Evan are a very l...Deirdre,<br /><br />It sounds like you and Evan are a very lucky couple indeed. It's enjoyable reading about your discipline activities.<br /><br />Michael_MichaelAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203514222876498689.post-66056061827569508552010-01-22T11:29:51.550-08:002010-01-22T11:29:51.550-08:00Hi Ms.Deirdre - I love your blog. I checked it out...Hi Ms.Deirdre - I love your blog. I checked it out after you had posted a link to it in a comment on my yahoo group - http://groups.yahoo.com/group/spankingfemalemale/ - I was delighted to read your overview of the DD relationship you incorporate in your marriage. I have a long time female friend whom I met on my yahoo group well over 10 years ago, we have had 100's of long involved talks about DD and when circumstances have allowed, we have gotten together and she has disciplined me. We eventually plan to join up for good when circumstances allow and I already know through our communication that it will be very simmilar to the relationship you now enjoy. I loved the statement you made that Evan "loved the idea of spanking but hated the actual reality of it"...I have never heard it put better for those of us that are spanked by strong women such as yourself. Finally, I would like to agree with wailer above, I somehow feel more naked when I am not totally naked! For me it is more mentally devastating to not only still have my socks on but to also have my underpants on only lowered.....it really does have alot to do with the fact that I know why I am in this state of undress.....I am about to be severely spanked with similar paddles as yours which I have made. I am going to post pictures on the yahoo group now of some of the implements we have and ones that are used. Thanksfor taking the time to post this blog ma'am. - wdspooneAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203514222876498689.post-28431515678379468462010-01-22T10:02:22.179-08:002010-01-22T10:02:22.179-08:00Truly, I love this blog and want to encourage you ...Truly, I love this blog and want to encourage you in every way. Your photo in pink sweater and light skirt is compelling and powerful, the visual representation of that delicious and nerve-wracking pre-disciplinary moment. This photo draws me into the scene.<br /><br />Thanks, too, for comments on your favorite paddles. I have always felt that a loving wife, with a small but effective paddle in her purse, would be among the greatest gifts that women could give to society.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203514222876498689.post-27787685705057907612010-01-22T08:04:34.390-08:002010-01-22T08:04:34.390-08:00Hi There
Love your blog, thanks for sharing it wi...Hi There<br /><br />Love your blog, thanks for sharing it with us....have you ever thought of using one of your slippers on Ewan?<br /><br />Ben (UK)bjhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03765410187612293786noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203514222876498689.post-12921777112159399982010-01-22T07:40:02.120-08:002010-01-22T07:40:02.120-08:00hi too all, you are like my wife she loves the pad...hi too all, you are like my wife she loves the paddles we have many and the strap is the other ones she likes to uses a lot too,<br /> for us she like to put cream on my butt before a spanking it may be baby oil, hand cream, and if i am very bad icy hot, it holds the heat in and the sting last longerbrucespudhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02644476156027797103noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203514222876498689.post-11103810596857447402010-01-22T05:39:34.545-08:002010-01-22T05:39:34.545-08:00One thing I noticed is that Evan still has his soc...One thing I noticed is that Evan still has his socks on. It might sound silly, but that's a nice touch. <br /><br />For some reason, being bare below the waist feels more naked than being totally undressed. It's a reminder that you're undressed to be punished.<br /><br />The socks still on just enhance that.wailerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10976546493434950435noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203514222876498689.post-83355709703634833762010-01-22T05:38:25.484-08:002010-01-22T05:38:25.484-08:00Hi Guys,
Love the blog and would like to follow it...Hi Guys,<br />Love the blog and would like to follow it but I cant seem to find out how to become a 'follower'. We have just started a similar blog ourselves and this is totally new for us (late starters in our mid forties). <br />Anyway, keep up this great site and we hope to be able to find a way to become a follower!<br />Jayne's Master.Jayne's Masternoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203514222876498689.post-36043586543289439872010-01-22T00:38:27.666-08:002010-01-22T00:38:27.666-08:00Dear
Thank you for your passage. I suggest you usi...Dear<br />Thank you for your passage. I suggest you using corp riding (horse whip) for bad mistakes. It is very effective for him. I use this for my husband and very effectively. I wait for your video clip. <br />Kiss you dear<br />Regard<br />Parivashparivash parivashhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05289999561917963117noreply@blogger.com