tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203514222876498689.post7243266636478585950..comments2024-03-21T07:16:20.215-07:00Comments on Spanking My Husband: advanced corner time for EvanDeirdre above Evanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14304678551568025850noreply@blogger.comBlogger39125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203514222876498689.post-64514454380574978782013-06-26T20:49:02.529-07:002013-06-26T20:49:02.529-07:00The two of you have such lovely energy. Thanks for...The two of you have such lovely energy. Thanks for taking the time and effort to share. I'd love to hear what you're doing now. <br /> <br />Context is everything, of course, but love your phrase "Of course it wasn't too much: this is what your bottom is for" and plan to make good use of it when the opportunity arises. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203514222876498689.post-80970770982137960592012-10-03T08:47:16.533-07:002012-10-03T08:47:16.533-07:00Dear vs-boy:
thank you for the compliment.
Good ...Dear vs-boy:<br /><br />thank you for the compliment.<br /><br />Good luck to you in your spanking attempts with your wife. The most important thing to do is to have good communication: you should talk about what excites you and why (if possible). Leave her out of this discussion: talk about your needs and desires from your point of view, and not what she should do. I hope that she can do the same, and that you won't judge one another negatively, and you can each accept each other's similarities and differences.<br /><br />Keep us posted on how you do!<br /><br />Deirdre<br />Deirdre above Evanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14304678551568025850noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203514222876498689.post-68296126037471229412012-10-03T08:44:18.167-07:002012-10-03T08:44:18.167-07:00Dear Mr anon 2:
I can't tell if you were happ...Dear Mr anon 2:<br /><br />I can't tell if you were happy about licking your ejaculate off of your mistress's shoes. Were you? If not, maybe you should find someone that will torment you in a more loving way?<br /><br />I recommend not starting with the shoe-ejaculation as a conversation starter. Most girls I know nowadays wouldn't be bothered by that (or by a need to be spanked), so I would start with the assumption that most girls may be ok with your need to be dominated. So I would get to know them on some other levels first. As you fall in love, then you need to reveal all your inner feelings, but I wouldn't start too quickly with this information.<br /><br />Good luck to you: I hope you can find someone to make you happy!<br /><br />Deirdre<br /><br />ps. It's not healthy to lick the walls or floors. So I would be wary of someone who has you do this. I don't think that would have your best interests at heart. (The shoes may be ok, however: your mistress may keep her shoes clean, so that you can lick them off.)Deirdre above Evanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14304678551568025850noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203514222876498689.post-76287439104026302502012-10-03T08:37:14.055-07:002012-10-03T08:37:14.055-07:00Dear anon 1:
Thank you very much for the kind wor...Dear anon 1:<br /><br />Thank you very much for the kind words.<br /><br />(I don't really like the word "bitch" but I understand by the way that you wrote that you meant this in a very positive way. Evan has tried to teach me that it's ok to be a "bitch" in this sense, but it has bad connotations for me that I have a hard time getting over. So I prefer "iron-willed woman" to "iron-willed bitch", but I do get your point.)<br /><br />Anyway, yes, you are right: my discipline of Evan is firm and very hard for him to bear, but definitely for his own good. He needs these spankings, and he loves having a strict wife. I know he hates it at the time of a spanking, but it's in his interest that I push him far. It doesn't hurt that I happen to enjoy doing it too: I think that that only helps the situation.<br /><br />Thanks for the offer of feet-kissing, and especially the offer of making me dinner. I like it when a man cooks for me. Fortunately, I have such a man: Evan is an excellent cook, and he cleans up too. I am lucky! Now go make some other woman happy with all your love and talents, mr. anon!<br /><br />Deirdre<br />Deirdre above Evanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14304678551568025850noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203514222876498689.post-86695114552823079482012-10-01T04:12:12.409-07:002012-10-01T04:12:12.409-07:00Dear Deidre;
Iam compelled by my submissive natur...Dear Deidre;<br />Iam compelled by my submissive nature to obey your command to repley to this most wonder episode Of your life. You were obviously spontaneous inthe<br />Manner iwhch you Punished and tormented Evan. I have experienced similar circumstance but without the love . After the mistress Punished me I was forced to ejaculateconto her shoes , the soles and lick them clean.Of course I would have licked the walls and floor clean.At your cOmmand.<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203514222876498689.post-13647646655118543192012-09-28T18:51:07.283-07:002012-09-28T18:51:07.283-07:00OMG... you are so evil that you are good ;)
My w...OMG... you are so evil that you are good ;)<br /><br />My wife just recently started to spank me, and I hope she enjoys it so I can get more of it.vs-boyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04715617491485385267noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203514222876498689.post-18571454122418165832012-09-28T03:17:44.524-07:002012-09-28T03:17:44.524-07:00Dear R:
Thanks for all the advice about tricks to...Dear R:<br /><br />Thanks for all the advice about tricks to play on Evan. I will keep these in mind.<br /><br />I especially like the prickly doormat idea: I will have to put that into play at some point.<br /><br />Thanks for reading, and for commenting.<br /><br />DeirdreDeirdre above Evanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14304678551568025850noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203514222876498689.post-60237198550117460582012-09-28T03:15:46.150-07:002012-09-28T03:15:46.150-07:00Yes, Evan is over the moon.
DeirdreYes, Evan is over the moon.<br /><br />DeirdreDeirdre above Evanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14304678551568025850noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203514222876498689.post-11576442390057762062012-09-26T00:47:05.259-07:002012-09-26T00:47:05.259-07:00Dear Deirdre,
wonderful to see Evan getting more ...Dear Deirdre,<br /><br />wonderful to see Evan getting more corner time. Its always been one of K's "special subjects". <br /><br />I get it before a spanking, as a way of building the sense of anticipation.... how the mind can play tricks on you in a state of anxiety, 10 minutes feels like hours. <br /><br />I also almost invariably get it after a spanking. Being put in the corner with a spanked bottom on display is embarrassing but its also a kind of sanctuary, a place to calm down and recover in relative privacy. <br /><br />And of course corner time works fine on its own - time out to head off a bad mood or allow me to appreciate I'm on a last warning and think quietly about the consequences.<br /><br />K has also developed several power enhancements over the years - the coin trick being one of them. Another is to attach a thin paper bad around my thumbs when I do corner time with my hands on my head. Moving out of position breaks the band - with the same consequences as dropping the coin. Another is to use the chair she has been sitting on to spank me, this can be put in the corner or elsewhere in the room and I do my corner time kneeling on it, hands on head, pants down. Breakfast spankings (administered at the breakfast table usually for something done the evening before) often end with K eating breakfast with me kneeling on the next chair, hands on head, red bottom displayed for her amusement while she eats and reads the paper.<br /><br />In DD we find its the simple things that work the best, and nothing illustrates this better than corner time!<br /><br />R <br /><br />The final enhancement to share is the "naughty stool" a stool with a piece of prickly door mat on it - usually used for post spanking corner time but works vey well onits own- put it in the corner and put the recipient on it with their pants down.... Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203514222876498689.post-25631401499923465852012-09-25T23:18:43.119-07:002012-09-25T23:18:43.119-07:00It sounds as if you really enjoy yourselves! I can...It sounds as if you really enjoy yourselves! I can tell you do; I hope that Evan does also!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203514222876498689.post-43559960815844283592012-09-25T13:31:55.071-07:002012-09-25T13:31:55.071-07:00But I am sure he squirms in pleasure ma'am!
T...But I am sure he squirms in pleasure ma'am!<br /><br />Thank you<br />Always<br />RonNjspankhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07839344536156873192noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203514222876498689.post-54424671961011498082012-09-25T13:24:26.021-07:002012-09-25T13:24:26.021-07:00Dear OH:
Thank you very much for the compliment o...Dear OH:<br /><br />Thank you very much for the compliment on the blog.<br /><br />Evan has never had any interest in dressing as a woman, or wearing women's panties. I also haven't really had such an interest. However, unfortunately for Evan, I agree with your wife that it would be very funny to see Evan wearing some lipstick. I will try that very soon. I may go for the underwear sometime also. I will see if the lipstick is funny first: I will let the blog know how it goes.<br /><br />Thank you for the compliment and the idea.<br /><br />Deirdre<br />Deirdre above Evanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14304678551568025850noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203514222876498689.post-55564954132750862902012-09-25T09:51:23.228-07:002012-09-25T09:51:23.228-07:00Dear Ms. Deirdre,
Obedient Hubby here. You wrote...Dear Ms. Deirdre,<br /><br />Obedient Hubby here. You wrote, "I like the strict wife / family feel to our relationship." That is precisely what makes your blog so appealing to me. You and Evan are such an attractive couple, and the use of a bunch of equipment or fetish clothing, etc. is not part of your formula. To see you in your normal clothing, in the home setting, spanking the hell out of your husband -- that is the essence of it, without a bunch of superfluous stuff. I realize some people, wives as well as husbands, go for all kinds of kinky variations and that is fine for them. But what you do to that poor man's bottom, and to his mind, is the essence of the blog. And it is wonderful and complete. Wicked variations are welcome, but the basic parameters are perfect, at least in my view. And, it is what my wife likes also, although she will sometimes add panties and lipstick which does nothing for me except makes me feel stupid, which turns her on. No rules for what the wife chooses to do or not do, just woman-in-charge, and a paddle to make sure the husband remembers who is the boss. And perhaps a cane for addressing thoughtless behavior and to settle hurt feelings and arguments. It's humiliating, and it hurts when I get it, and I adore her. Keep up the good reporting, please.<br /><br />O.H.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203514222876498689.post-22592806341959141642012-09-25T06:25:40.544-07:002012-09-25T06:25:40.544-07:00Dear Alan:
Thank you for the description of your ...Dear Alan:<br /><br />Thank you for the description of your wife's practices. You sound well looked after.<br /><br />I have mostly used corner time for post-spanking, but I can see how it is useful at all times. I may be making more use of corner time in the coming weeks. For some reason, it now appeals to me more than it used to.<br /><br />Deirdre<br />Deirdre above Evanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14304678551568025850noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203514222876498689.post-16168648351625977112012-09-25T06:21:52.279-07:002012-09-25T06:21:52.279-07:00Dear OH:
Yes indeed, the mind is the most powerfu...Dear OH:<br /><br />Yes indeed, the mind is the most powerful erogenous zone, at least for Evan and me.<br /><br />DeirdreDeirdre above Evanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14304678551568025850noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203514222876498689.post-89850232587256219122012-09-25T06:17:59.142-07:002012-09-25T06:17:59.142-07:00Dear Anon lady:
Clothespins on the ears! What a ...Dear Anon lady:<br /><br />Clothespins on the ears! What a lovely idea. I haven't done anything with clothespins yet. I gather that that's a standard in the female dominant profession. Maybe sometime soon: I don't know. I like the strict wife / family feel to our relationship. Not that clothespins wouldn't fit there somewhere: I am just not sure yet.<br /><br />Anyway, thank you very much for the comment and the implicit suggestion. It's definitely worth considering.<br /><br />Deirdre<br />Deirdre above Evanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14304678551568025850noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203514222876498689.post-92158322574961565792012-09-25T06:14:23.783-07:002012-09-25T06:14:23.783-07:00Dear SS:
Tenting your panties? What a silly subm...Dear SS:<br /><br />Tenting your panties? What a silly submissive man you are!<br /><br />I hope your spanking was much longer and harder, and that you were suitably contrite at the end.<br /><br />Deirdre<br />Deirdre above Evanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14304678551568025850noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203514222876498689.post-43783996313332500042012-09-25T06:12:45.101-07:002012-09-25T06:12:45.101-07:00Hi Ron:
I will post more otk pictures for you soo...Hi Ron:<br /><br />I will post more otk pictures for you soon. I like otk the best too, but Evan is such a squirmer.<br /><br />DeirdreDeirdre above Evanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14304678551568025850noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203514222876498689.post-76158406244921398562012-09-25T06:11:37.607-07:002012-09-25T06:11:37.607-07:00Dear Anon:
yes, I was surprised that Evan was abl...Dear Anon:<br /><br />yes, I was surprised that Evan was able to keep the penny up while coming. I didn't expect that at all.<br /><br />Don't worry: 3-strappy will find his way back to Evan's bottom. That's where he belongs. He needs to do his job to have a satisfactory life.<br /><br />DeirdreDeirdre above Evanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14304678551568025850noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203514222876498689.post-91613943685769180852012-09-25T06:09:26.224-07:002012-09-25T06:09:26.224-07:00Dear MM:
Thank you for your continued responses t...Dear MM:<br /><br />Thank you for your continued responses to all my blog posts, over all these years.<br /><br />Yes, Evan gets super excited by the way that I talk, more than the way I look or touch him. It's very nice: as we all should know by now, sex is mostly in the mind.<br /><br />Yes, 3-strappy will get his chance. (3-strappy is a boy.)<br /><br />Deirdre<br />Deirdre above Evanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14304678551568025850noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203514222876498689.post-36002332317153624162012-09-25T05:59:23.888-07:002012-09-25T05:59:23.888-07:00Dear Steve:
Evan calls me "maam" at tim...Dear Steve:<br /><br />Evan calls me "maam" at times. I like this a lot.<br /><br />A bell: what a good idea. I don't need it, but I agree that it's a lovely symbol, and I like that I can ring it in the presence of others at our home, and he would obey me. Not too obviously kinky, but obvious submission to me for everyone to see, which I like.<br /><br />Thank you for the suggestion,<br /><br />Deirdre<br />Deirdre above Evanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14304678551568025850noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203514222876498689.post-346613764890212412012-09-25T05:56:42.634-07:002012-09-25T05:56:42.634-07:00Dear Suffie:
I am sorry that you will never exper...Dear Suffie:<br /><br />I am sorry that you will never experience "cum in the corner".<br /><br />I find it odd that your wife would need to check the walls with a black light for old cum marks. I have never heard of people masturbating on the walls: is this a cultural practice that I am not aware of? What's wrong with a tissue?<br /><br />And yes, tears are in principle a good way to find limits. I normally don't count spanks either: I am a timer-girl. With a timer, I usually go well beyond Evan's stated limit, but his limits are weak when he's over my lap or on the bench. Still getting him to cry is difficult. Getting him to yell (even very loudly) is very easy. But genuine crying is harder.<br /><br />Deirdre<br />Deirdre above Evanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14304678551568025850noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203514222876498689.post-51414162347726868662012-09-25T05:51:56.896-07:002012-09-25T05:51:56.896-07:00Dear OH:
As I say above, I am interested in someh...Dear OH:<br /><br />As I say above, I am interested in somehow making the blog more interactive sometime, on a temporary basis (if not in real time), but I am currently thinking about how to do this. I will post sometime soon regarding this idea.<br /><br />Yes, I imagine that most readers would want me to push Evan farther and farther. That doesn't bother me: I am happy to please the masses to some degree. I also think it excites Evan, but it won't when he's getting what he's excited about. In any case, I will try later on this topic.<br /><br />DeirdreDeirdre above Evanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14304678551568025850noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203514222876498689.post-56990368657964461642012-09-25T05:47:41.341-07:002012-09-25T05:47:41.341-07:00Dear Jake:
Yes, I have thought about audience par...Dear Jake:<br /><br />Yes, I have thought about audience participation somehow in my blog, but I am not sure how to make it fun and genuine for all parties involved. I am thinking about it: I think I may post about this sometime, seeking some suggestions. The problem as I see it with most interactions like this is that the readers may not feel truly involved, and similarly for us. I am not sure how to make it more genuinely interactive (if not in real time).<br /><br />DeirdreDeirdre above Evanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14304678551568025850noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203514222876498689.post-66090396074948275802012-09-25T05:44:11.432-07:002012-09-25T05:44:11.432-07:00Thank you, Michael M.
I am glad that you like my ...Thank you, Michael M.<br /><br />I am glad that you like my writing. And yes your observation about "the penny dropped" is a good one.<br /><br />DDeirdre above Evanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14304678551568025850noreply@blogger.com