tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-82035142228764986892024-03-21T07:16:21.434-07:00Spanking My HusbandI spank my husband Evan for fun in our sex life. Evan has a love-hate relationship with spanking: he loves the idea, but he hates it when it happens.Deirdre above Evanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14304678551568025850noreply@blogger.comBlogger101125truetag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203514222876498689.post-63557450256688490832013-12-07T07:44:00.002-08:002013-12-07T07:44:03.883-08:00A near meeting with JulieHi all:<br />
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Sorry for the long silence. I have been too busy with work for the past while to do the blogging thing as well.<br />
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Evan and I are well: we are just busy with work. I still spank him regularly, and we are very happy.<br />
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Recently, Julie from http://strictjuliespanks.blogspot.com and I and our husbands almost met. But life intervened, and it didn't quite happen. Julie wrote about a fantasy meeting that she dreamed up: she is so imaginative that girl! Anyway, I thought you all should know about it.<br />
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http://strictjuliespanks.blogspot.com/2013/12/julie-and-deirdre-almost-meet.html<br />
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Hugs to all,<br />
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<br />Deirdre above Evanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14304678551568025850noreply@blogger.com21tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203514222876498689.post-23188748713236826452013-02-20T18:45:00.001-08:002013-02-20T18:45:33.519-08:00switching gears: a f/m spanking advice blogHi everyone:<br />
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Sorry for the long delay in posting again. I think I have posted enough about Evan's and my life for now. There isn't much more to say about spanking and female dominance in our relationship. Things are great, but I find it boring to post day-to-day events: not enough that's different happens to be worth writing about, in my opinion. And I don't want to write about more vanilla / mundane things because that's too much information that might eventually make us more identifiable. In order to keep our anonymity, I feel the need to keep the topic to spanking and female dominance (as silly as that sounds).<br />
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So if I am going to keep posting, I need fresh new ideas in this area in which to write. My first idea in this area is to shift the blog to an advice blog: you, gentle readers, provide me with situations and questions, and I will try to give you advice, as best as I can, given the information that you give me. Many people have written to me over the years asking for advice about their f/m relationship (just as many women as men: about 50/50). Maybe some of you would consent to have anonymized versions of your questions discussed here?<br />
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Please send me your questions and stories, and I will try to help, and we will all seek the help of the many readers here.<br />
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Evan sends his best: he is doing very well. I haven't spanked him for a couple of weeks, but I am sure that will change sometime soon. (Just the usual happy way it is around here...)<br />
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<br />Deirdre above Evanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14304678551568025850noreply@blogger.com22tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203514222876498689.post-58399571255336700582012-12-28T21:12:00.001-08:002012-12-28T21:14:11.004-08:00happy holidays, and new blog by DianneHi all:<br />
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Sorry for the long delay in posting. Evan and I have been very busy last few weeks. We were in Europe for a little while in November, for my work (Evan tagged along for fun), and then we returned in early December. We have been busy at work over the past few weeks back at home. Now we are finally relaxing a bit over the holidays.<br />
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While work was so busy during the last month, it has been difficult for me to find time to spank Evan. But he will be getting lots of spankings in the new year: my secret new year's gift to him.<br />
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In case you haven't seen it, here is a a great new blog by Dianne:<br />
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Here, she talks about her exploration of a spanking relationship with her husband Bob. Please visit them and welcome them to our neighborhood.<br />
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I will try to post more in the coming year, but I am frankly not sure what I will post about. I have posted about most everything I can think of... Any ideas from you? Have I promised something that I may have forgotten about?<br />
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Happy new year to all! Here are some photos from a recent spanking that Evan received.<br />
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Hugs to all,<br />
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<br />Deirdre above Evanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14304678551568025850noreply@blogger.com48tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203514222876498689.post-17550580152672628572012-11-18T11:00:00.004-08:002012-11-18T11:00:52.026-08:00finishing off the last spankingHi all:<br />
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First, thanks to Evan for posting his thoughtful views on orgasm denial. I think our view of orgasm denial has moved a lot since we first tried out a female-led relationship. We first tried this as a route to Evan's perhaps listening to me more, and doing what I wanted, when I said so. But we found a different route to that goal, which was simply my being strict. So orgasm denial takes on a new function in our relationship: this is now just a way to play with Evan for my (and indirectly his) amusement.<br />
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(But as I have said earlier, I don't know the long-term effects of orgasm denial on a man, so I will allow Evan to orgasm every now and then, even when I generally may like to keep him denied.)<br />
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Here are the last few photos from the spanking that I was posting about earlier. Here, Evan is still figged, and I am spanking very hard. In the last photo, you can see that he is completely flopped out over my lap. He has completely given in to the spanking at this point, which is something that I like to bring about in him.<br />
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I am working hard early this week so that Evan and I can have a relaxing Thanksgiving, with no work stress later in the week. In case I don't write more this week, happy Thanksgiving to all you Americans out there. I hope that you boys get the spankings that you deserve (and need) and that you are appropriately thankful for them if you do!<br />
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<br />Deirdre above Evanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14304678551568025850noreply@blogger.com36tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203514222876498689.post-1619358119445275452012-11-16T13:22:00.000-08:002012-11-16T13:22:14.889-08:00chastity, female control, and real life<br />
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Deirdre has asked me to write about the topic of chastity, female control in a relationship, and real life. This is an interesting and complex topic. I started writing this post several months ago, and since then, my relationship with Deirdre has changed a lot, such that she is now in total control, and we both prefer it this way. Anyway, here is what I wrote a few months ago, with some comments along the way updating the way I feel.</div>
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1. Background: our fit as a couple</div>
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As Deirdre has described, it was always my fantasy to be dominated by my partner, and to have her spank me and sexually control me as she pleased. This is a pretty common male fantasy (and probably a common submissive fantasy among many women, too). Finding a compatible partner is sometimes difficult, but I have a very compatible partner in Deirdre: she happens to be dominant, and she likes to be in control of everything, as much as possible. She is very organized, and she likes things done her way. Furthermore, she really likes sex in many variations: she has tried a lot of things, and she is usually happy to try something new. Early in our relationship, when I mentioned the idea that it is my fantasy to have my partner control me sexually and otherwise in life, she was excited by and supportive of the idea. She likes both the idea of dominating me sexually and the idea of leading the relationship in all other ways. So she has always been supportive of this proposal.</div>
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2. If I am not sexually charged up (basically I need to not have orgasmed in a while, so that I am backed up with semen) I don't always do what Deirdre wants.</div>
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However, as Deirdre mentioned in a recent post, I don't always play by the rules that I want to agree to. In particular, I don't always do what she says, and I also have not always agreed to the punishments that she has laid out for me. For example, we may disagree about some home topic. She may want it done one way, and I may want it done another. It doesn't matter what the topic is. Perhaps I was right about the best way to do it, and perhaps she was: it doesn't matter. What matters is that we have sometimes had an agreement that I should submit to her wishes in these kinds of scenarios, but when they occurred, I didn't always do so.</div>
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(I wrote this a while ago: this doesn't seem to be true anymore. I now do what Deirdre says pretty much all the time, whether or not I am sexually charged up. Her attitude is what changed everything: now if I disagree with her, she tells me bluntly to make sure that I am respectful of her and her opinion at all times, or she will spank me right away. This usually works, but if not, she grabs my hair or ear and then makes sure that I listen to her point of view. From my point of view, her new strict attitude has been the determining factor over the past few months.)</div>
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There are several possible solutions: one extreme is to drop the idea of female control, and use a more balanced approach to our life together; another extreme is to find some way to make female control possible: to make it so that I will be able to follow her instructions at all times.</div>
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(A third solution, that I didn't see as possible at the time, is that Deirdre could take a much stricter attitude toward me. This is what has happened, and so far it looks like our issues are solved.)</div>
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4. An obvious solution: male chastity</div>
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This issue has occurred many times in many other attempted female-led relationships, and a standard solution is for the female in the relationship to control the male's orgasms. The principle on which this works is that men who haven't ejaculated in a while will more readily obey their partners. I am certainly one of these men: when I haven't ejaculated in a couple of days, I will do almost anything that Deirdre asks of me, sexual or not. So we have tried male chastity as a way to facilitate the female-led relationship that we both want.</div>
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5. Achieving male chastity, attempt 1: Using the CB-2000</div>
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The first method we tried for keeping me from ejaculating was by using the CB-2000, a popular chastity device from a few years ago. This seemed good in principle, but it wasn't great in practice. First, it's quite uncomfortable to wear under your clothes, and it's hard to work out while wearing it. Second, it didn't really hold me in: there was no setting that we could find such that I couldn't slip my penis out, and then back in again, if I wanted to do so. The problem was roughly that my penis could really shrink back up into my body when it was uncomfortable over a long period, and then it could always come out again, above the device. Third, it was really uncomfortable to sleep in. Whenever I started to get an erection at night, I would be awakened by the straining against the device, because it was not possible to be erect inside it. And then I would get a lousy sleep as a result.</div>
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We tried the CB-2000 off and of for a few weeks / months, over a period of a couple of years. Although we both still like the idea in principle of Deirdre being completely in control of my sexuality, so that I can't orgasm without her playing a part in it, the CB-2000 didn't do that for us. It was uncomfortable, and it didn't actually stop me from masturbating: it just made it more difficult to do so. It was not satisfactory for long-term use for us, so we abandoned it. (I didn't masturbate when it was in use -- because Deirdre and I had agreed that I wouldn't -- but the CB-2000 wasn't stopping me from doing so.)</div>
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In order to achieve male chastity, I now simply avoid masturbating. Fortunately, I have a very supportive partner in Deirdre: most of the time, she would like me not to masturbate, so that she has more control over me; but she is very understanding of a deep need for sexual relief. She has had times in her life when she wanted to masturbate all the time, and so she understands the need / desire to masturbate, and to look at porn. So she was never upset with me if I ever strayed and masturbated when I was not supposed to. That was very supportive of her. Rather than be upset, she would just encourage me not to masturbate in the future.</div>
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Over time, I have realized that the way to avoid masturbating is to avoid looking at sexual material whenever possible. As long as I don't look at much porn, then I won't have as much of a need to masturbate. (I also think that my sex drive has dropped with age over the past few years, which helps in avoiding masturbating.) I can now simply avoid masturbating by just not touching myself at all, and not looking at porn. This might not have been possible for me when I was younger, but now it seems to be possible.</div>
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7. Chastity and real life for horny men: A bad fit</div>
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Even though I can remain chaste for long periods without masturbating, the problem is that when I don't have sexual release for a long while (which now means a few days), all I think about is sex. This is kind of a fun state to be in, but it's impractical in the real world. It means that in Deirdre's words, I am a bit of an idiot in this state. I don't do much work, and all I want to talk to her about is serving her or doing something for her. She likes this, but she sees that it's not practical: I need to think for my living, and my employers wouldn't appreciate the chaste version of me working for them. Someday Deirdre and I may take a few months off from work (or at least I will), and then she can have me as her personal slave / pet during that period. I think we would both really like that. She says that when we get around to that, she may buy a big cage to keep me in part time: she would like to see me suffer when she knows she has me to herself for a long period. But at the moment we have real-world commitments that we must keep. So for the time being, she keeps me in temporary states of chastity, just enough so that she can get me to do what she likes a lot of the time. But she also lets me orgasm every now and then, to clear the pipes, so I can't get some serious work done each week or two.</div>
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Final comments: For us, the goal of male chastity was to achieve a female-led relationship in which I would always listen to Deirdre. We have found a different path to that goal: through Deirdre's much increased strictness. Consequently, chastity is no longer a goal in our relationship. Deirdre now stops me from orgasming over long periods just for her own amusement, not because it makes me more subservient to her. This dynamic works well for both of us.</div>
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Evanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03764899961173909615noreply@blogger.com11tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203514222876498689.post-72320429335543109152012-11-13T13:46:00.000-08:002012-11-13T13:46:00.500-08:00spanking and figging for EvanHi there:<br />
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Here are some pictures of Evan getting figged, and then some more hard spanking.<br />
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(For those of you who don't know, getting "figged" consists having a piece of peeled ginger inserted into one's anus. I gather it's quite a strong feeling: Evan says it stings a lot. For more on figging please see:<br />
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He didn't like this at all! But he stayed very still, while he was figged. He doesn't squirm at all when he has a piece of ginger in his bottom. This enables me to spread his cheeks a bit, and get the tender inside part of his bottom crack. What fun! (Not for him, but definitely for me. If I didn't blur out my face, you would see a big smile on my face during this part of the spanking!)<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">This is the most embarrassing part for Evan: Having his cheeks spread, and then having the peeled ginger inserted.</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">He stops squirming when he is figged. That makes the spanking a lot easier for me. I can spank as hard as I like.</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Here is a picture of me spanking the inner cheek. He really didn't like this.</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">When he is relaxed like this (with the ginger in his anus), I get better impact shots: see his bottom bounce away!</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Another inner cheek spank.<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"> </span></td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">And another!</td></tr>
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<br />Deirdre above Evanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14304678551568025850noreply@blogger.com9tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203514222876498689.post-7300191202820871622012-11-10T05:33:00.005-08:002012-11-10T05:33:56.188-08:00Another spanking for EvanThis spanking happened a little while ago. Evan put up with it well, although he did squirm a bit, which led me to eventually fig him during the spanking. (I had a ready cut piece of ginger in case this might be the case.) As you can see, he was quite excited before the spanking, in spite of himself. And I can never resist giving his penis a squeeze when it's in that lovely state.<br />
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More later: we are really busy right now.<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">oh my!</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">what a wonderful toy!</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">getting started</td></tr>
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Deirdre above Evanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14304678551568025850noreply@blogger.com16tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203514222876498689.post-22106314292389557802012-11-07T01:26:00.003-08:002012-11-07T01:26:59.825-08:00celebration spanking of Obama win!Hi all:<br />
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This blog is almost exclusively about my relationship with my husband Evan, and how I now keep him in line with regular strict discipline, as he needs. I don't think I have ever mentioned a political orientation in my writings yet... I am breaking that string with this one post, where I express my happiness and relief that Obama won the election. (I know that some large fraction of you readers may disagree with me, but this is my blog, and I can therefore express my view here.)<br />
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It should come as no surprise that Evan and I are strong supporters of the Democratic party, including Obama and our new senator-elect Warren. After all, I am educated, from a big city in Massachusetts, under 35, and a woman. All of these factors statistically suggest that I would vote for Obama, and I did. I am very pleased that he and Elizabeth Warren won!<br />
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As a celebration of this, I gave Evan a good spanking before we went to bed. That was my celebration spanking!<br />
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The photos are new to the blog, but are not from last night... I didn't film the spanking last night. That was just for Evan and me.<br />
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Hugs to all!<br />
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Deirdre<br />
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<br />Deirdre above Evanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14304678551568025850noreply@blogger.com42tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203514222876498689.post-83629934845286171932012-11-03T08:39:00.002-07:002012-11-03T08:39:18.070-07:00My wife Deirdre in charge: joy in my lifeHi all:<br />
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Thanks to all of you for your support of Deirdre's blog.<br />
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Many of you have asked for my take on how my relationship with Deirdre has been going recently, with Deirdre taking strong control of our marriage. Briefly, it has been great. I don't know what clicked in her a few months ago now (September? late August?) when she first grabbed me by my ear and my hair and told me off. But that totally worked for me and for her. Now I always listen to her, even when I am grouchy and don't feel like it. Two days ago we were traveling somewhere in the evening, take a local flight together. I often am somewhat nervous traveling, because I don't like to be late and I don't like the possibility of being late. This makes me tense, especially when there are lots of lines at airports. Anyway, I was tense, and Deirdre could sense this. She told me calmly to relax, that we had lots of time, and that we should always enjoy our time together, no matter what we were doing. I agreed half-heartedly with her, even though I knew she was right: it's just hard to get my attention when I am tense or stressed. Eventually I was a bit short with her (I don't remember exactly when or where) and she told me loudly and clearly that she would deal with me properly when we got to the hotel: she was going to give me a sound spanking and put me in the corner for 30 minutes to make me think about my behavior. This loud threat (which I am sure anyone around us could hear) got me to behave immediately. I stopped behaving tensely with her, and we had a very nice flight.<br />
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True to her word however, she gave me a quick hard spanking as soon as we got to the hotel, and put me in the corner with my pants down, hands on my head for 15 minutes (she let me me off 15 minutes for good behavior). We had a wonderful evening after that all around.<br />
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All in all, things are going wonderfully. Deirdre spanks me often now: probably twice a week (which is a lot in regular life). We never fight anymore: if I get cranky in any way, she pulls out her purse paddle, and takes my pants down and spanks me as soon after the bad behavior as possible. I have to admit that it is hard to take at times, but we get along so much better like this. She is so calmly in control, which eventually melts me to do her bidding. We are both very happy. For my part, I feel deeply content, moreso than ever in my life before. She makes me completely relaxed when I know she is in control (which is almost always now).<br />
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My best to all,<br />
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Evan<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Deirdre connected well on that one. If you could see my face, you would see me with my mouth open, yelling out.</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">When I make noise, that just encourages Deirdre to spank more and harder. So there is usually more to come.</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">That one hurt a lot too!</td></tr>
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<br />Evanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03764899961173909615noreply@blogger.com19tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203514222876498689.post-10927510359374812072012-10-31T15:01:00.000-07:002012-10-31T15:01:27.829-07:00milking my husband on the spanking benchHi everyone:<br />
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Here are the last few pictures from Evan's last trip on the spanking bench. In these photos, you can see me milk his prostate with my big red dildo (7 inches long, 1.75 inches in diameter). I can really probe and massage his prostate area well with this instrument. Evan hadn't had an ejaculation in over 2 weeks at this point, so he was very built up with semen / prostatic fluid. I coaxed more than 5 milliliters from him after about 10 minutes of poking him in the butt. He moaned a lot, and I enjoyed it greatly.<br />
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For more on my thoughts on prostate milking please see:<br />
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http://spankingmyhusband.blogspot.com2012/09/deirdres-guide-to-prostate-milking.html<br />
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Talk to you more later. Stay dry! (That's a reference to the hurricane that hit us recently.)<br />
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Deirdre<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">You can see the dildo is part way out in this picture. It goes in much deeper in the later pictures.<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"> </span></td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">You can see a big glob of semen dripping out on this insertion of the dildo. Notice that Evan isn't hard at all while this goes on. I love prostate milking! It's so cool!</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Here's another big drop of semen, filling up the container that I have below it.</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Here's Evan's dripping penis after I have finished. He is still all sexually wound up though: I can only milk the outer layer of his semen using prostate milking.</td></tr>
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<br />Deirdre above Evanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14304678551568025850noreply@blogger.com16tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203514222876498689.post-57160993007689016752012-10-31T03:08:00.000-07:002012-10-31T03:08:17.212-07:00All's well in Boston: Thanks for your concernHi everyone:<br />
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Thanks to everyone that has written to me wondering how we are doing post-Sandy. We were lucky here in our town: no major damage. So everything is fine for us. I hope others in much worse-hit areas (NY and NJ for example) are doing ok. Our hearts go out to you.<br />
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Evan was sick in bed yesterday, with a stomach illness. The poor boy: I felt so bad for him. He didn't eat anything in almost two days, and he had one really bad night. Now he is doing much better: back to normal, so I am relieved. While he was sick (but getting better), he tried to see if I would spank him then. He goaded me a couple of times, and so I got my trusty purse paddle and smacked him on his hand as he was goading me. He stopped immediately, and laughed. I hugged him and told him if he really wanted me to, I would give him a spanking then, but I thought it should wait until he was feeling better. He agreed, and went back to sleep. What a silly boy!<br />
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Hugs to all,<br />
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Deirdre<br />
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<br />Deirdre above Evanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14304678551568025850noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203514222876498689.post-53757431773502376292012-10-28T04:00:00.001-07:002012-10-28T04:00:08.771-07:00More of Evan on the benchHi all:<br />
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Regarding orgasm-denial, I had planned to keep Evan without an orgasm for a month or more, but then... one thing led to another, and he had a large ejaculation the other day, after 25 days without an ejaculation (our new record). I am not unhappy about this: I am still not sure that long-term denial of ejaculation is healthy. So I am holding off on following through on that, at least for now. I will re-open this idea as I learn more.<br />
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Here are some more photos of Evan getting his due on the bench... This was over a week ago now: he has received a couple more spankings over my knee since then. He is generally well-behaved, and he is doing as I say.</div>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Here's a hard spank using a new paddle. Evan got 2 mins straight with this paddle. What a lot of noise he made!</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Here's a hard spank to the other cheek. Notice how his penis has shrunk, given the hard spanking he is receiving.</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Here's another minute for Evan with a new paddle.</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">I am spanking hard, and he is yelling loudly for me to stop. Ha ha!</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">I gave him 2 minutes of spanking with this two-tailed strap (two-strappy!). He said that this was the worst of the whole spanking.</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">A lot of these wrapped around on the right: he had some good bruises where the end of the strap got him. (Unfortunately, the camera doesn't pick this up.)</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">The strap bounces off Evan's bottom, after a hard swing. He yelled very loudly here! And his erection is gone...</td></tr>
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Deirdre above Evanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14304678551568025850noreply@blogger.com13tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203514222876498689.post-69622029794653247822012-10-22T17:07:00.002-07:002012-10-22T17:07:32.822-07:00Trying out longer-term orgasm denial for Evan<br />
As many of you have noticed, I am trying Evan on longer-term orgasm denial. This is not as a punishment for Evan: this is just because I have noticed that Evan behaves better in general when he is horny. It's been three weeks now, and Evan's behavior has been exemplary. I milked his prostate after 2 weeks (on the bench last week), and now I think it's about time for another milking. I think I will milk him once per week, following the initial 2 week buildup, and I will see how that goes.<br />
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We have actually experimented with orgasm denial in the past, and we used to find that Evan gets too horny after a week or 10 days to be productive at work. However, this time, things seem to be different. Now that I am strict with Evan, I have been spanking him a lot for misbehavior, which includes whining about wanting a release. A hard spanking before bed seems to get rid of his erection just as well as an ejaculation does. So far so good: most critically for me, I want to see how Evan's work progresses. As long as he gets a sufficient amount accomplished at his work, I will continue this experiment. I think I will keep him like this for at least another couple of weeks. But if that goes well, I am not sure I will give him an orgasm then: I just don't know how it will progress at this point. I don't want to make plans without seeing the results of this pilot experiment.<br />
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I am very much enjoying reaping the rewards of the stricter version of me. I have taken to have Evan give me massages 2-3 times per week, before bed. I adore massages, so I don't know why I didn't take advantage of our relationship in this respect years ago. In any case, I take off all my clothes except my panties, and have Evan give me a full rub down. Eventually, my panties usually come down too, because Evan gives me a deep lower back / upper bottom massage. And the massages make me very relaxed and horny. As soon as I am satisfied with the massage, I often have Evan lick my pussy to orgasm (as I have mentioned before, he is wonderful at this). He always has a big erection after all this close sexual contact, and sometimes I will let him fuck me for a while from behind (my favorite) because it feels so good (especially after an orgasm). But, at the moment I am not allowing him to orgasm this way (or any way), so I have been careful of only having a short fuck post-cunnilingus. In fact, I am a little worried that he will have a spontaneous fast ejaculation while fucking me one of these times. I am trying to avoid that by milking his prostate regularly. So far so good!<br />
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Here are some more photos of Evan's recent bench spanking. As you can see, I like holding his penis when he is on the bench, when I spank him. This gives him mixed signals, and I enjoy the reaction. Eventually the pain of the spanking wins out, but it takes a while for the blood to drain from his swollen penis: I enjoy the hard spanks I can give him while he still has a hard erection.<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">I have a good grip on this situation. (Sorry.)</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">I love to squeeze this thing. What a great toy!</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Some gentle touches to the tip. (You can see that this was actually earlier in the spanking: there are just a few red welts from my paddle here.)</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">I can spank Evan while holding his penis out of the way (not that this is strictly necessary). You can see by my arm and the ripple on Evan's bottom that this was a hard spank.</td></tr>
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<span id="goog_861541513"></span><span id="goog_861541514"></span><br />Deirdre above Evanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14304678551568025850noreply@blogger.com36tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203514222876498689.post-92194018843144699082012-10-20T03:35:00.002-07:002012-10-20T03:38:47.323-07:00Demanding control from a difficult submissive man<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"></span><br />
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</span>In looking for resources regarding real female dominant relationships, I came across the following website, for women in submissive relationships to men:</div>
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</span>This is a great site. It's full of love from each partner to the other. I found that if I read this site substituting man for woman / husband for wife and vice versa, then it fits perfectly for us.</div>
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</span>Here is their opening blurb, with my substitutions put in:</div>
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</span>"Welcome to Taken In Hand, a website about wholehearted sexually-exclusive marriages in which the wife is firmly in charge (to her husband's delight!)—and she always puts her husband and their relationship first. Putting him and the relationship first is the key to creating a marriage in which the woman is in control in a good, healthy and sustainable way. Taken In Hand husbands tend not to claim to be submissive (though their wives may well consider them to be so) but they do respect, honour and appreciate their wives and strive to please them."</div>
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The site is great: it talks about it is good in many taken-in-hand relationships for the dominant to spank the submissive to keep him in line. It also discusses bondage, which we haven't done as much of: only so far as tying Evan to the spanking bench to take a hard spanking.</div>
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</span>A critical insight that I was able to get from the website is that Evan is in fact a true submissive. I had been thinking that Evan wasn't really submissive in his true nature, because he used to seem to only do what I wanted in certain circumstances, not all. He would especially not do what I wanted when it was difficult for him, in that what I wanted was different from what he wanted. In other circumstances (when he didn't have a strong opinion, which is much of the time) he would do what I wanted. But for example, if I asked to behave better in certain circumstances (like getting angry in traffic) he would ignore me and do as he was already doing, much to my displeasure. So I thought that maybe he is someone who is really an underlying dominant alpha-male personality, but who wants some superficially submissive things done to him.</div>
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But in reading the takeninhand website, I have discovered that he has just been testing me all this time. He would probably have done whatever I wanted, but I needed to be much more forceful in my demands of his behavior. The problem was that I wasn't demanding control nearly forcefully enough: he was testing me, looking for limits, looking for severity and strictness, and I always backed down.</div>
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In fact, I think Evan is very submissive: he just needs a strict wife to guide him. He was basically acting like a child, and I needed to take the role of a firm wife (like a parent in a way), who tells him when he is behaving badly, and that he should behave well right then, or face some serious consequences.</div>
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</span>I now realize that I have a great gift. In order to use it, I have to be forceful and confident in looking after him, and then he will do as I ask, exactly as I ask. So, I was wrong: he doesn't just want to top from the bottom. He really wants to be the bottom. He just needs me to lead strongly. I have been doing so for the past couple of months, and it has been working out amazingly well. We basically never fight anymore: if he starts to get grumpy about something, I remind him to behave and be respectful and kind. And if he doesn't change quickly, I tell him he will pay for that later, over my knee. Consequently, I have been spanking Evan a lot recently. He gets spanked at least twice a week now. He really dislikes the spankings, but the knowledge that he is getting one changes his attitude quickly: he tries hard to appease me to get out of the spanking. Sometimes this works, but more often than not, I give him a hard spanking to keep him on good behavior.</div>
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(And in answer to a commenter, yes, I always spank on the bare bottom, using some implement (never my hand). Most often my purse paddle, pursey.)</div>
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Anyway, the key point of this post is the insight that I got from takeninhand.com that Evan really is a submissive: I just need to be strict with him to get the most out of him. He won't be submissive if I ask him to do things that he doesn't want to, but he will do them when I tell him forcefully to do so.</div>
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</span>Here are a couple more still photos from Evan's recent trip on our bench.</div>
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</span>And FYI, Evan still hasn't had an orgasm, even since this spanking. I milked his prostate while he was on the bench (collecting a lot of semen / prostatic fluid: over 5mls!). But I did not let him orgasm that night or since, so that he has now not ejaculated in 19 days. I think we will go for at least a month before he gets a release. I am not sure what his "record" is in this regard, but I think 3 weeks is about it. So a month should be a new record.</div>
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</span>But I am not sure about this: I don't have firm plans here. (Moreover, don't worry about me: I have had several sexual releases in this time frame: Evan is an expert with his tongue. And I even have him fuck me for a while too each time, after he licks me to orgasm. We don't do that very long however, because I don't want any accidents. Fortunately, Evan takes a lot of stimulation in order to achieve orgasm, so I am not very worried about accidents.)</div>
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</span>Talk to you all later,</div>
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<br />Deirdre above Evanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14304678551568025850noreply@blogger.com32tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203514222876498689.post-76755502261154598852012-10-17T13:12:00.000-07:002012-10-17T13:21:39.440-07:00My husband back on the benchHi everyone:<br />
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It was bound to happen eventually: I got Evan on the bench recently, and gave him a good hard spanking.<br />
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He hadn't had an orgasm in a long time -- over two weeks -- so he was hard when I strapped him down, as you can see. I had him count 50 hard spanks, and then I started on several one- and two-minute spanking sessions, with different implements.<br />
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I would tell you more, but I am very busy at work right now, and so is Evan (so he can't do much here either). I will have him post some more soon, and I will post some more pictures of him on the bench soon too.<br />
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Deirdre<br />
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<br />Deirdre above Evanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14304678551568025850noreply@blogger.com31tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203514222876498689.post-30048264348035561762012-10-12T03:06:00.001-07:002012-10-12T03:06:37.607-07:00Evan, a well spanked husband: "Please spank me harder maam!"Here are the rest of the pictures from the last spanking I gave Evan.<br />
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As you can see, we started with Evan over my lap on the bed. He squirms around a lot like that, and so soon I had him kneel on the floor by the bed, where I could get a better swing.<br />
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Then I told him that I would give him only 50 hard spanks (approximately: I don't want to count) to finish his spanking, but only if he asked me to "Please spank me harder maam" all the way through the 50. If he stopped asking me to spank him harder, then I would start over. This was very fun. For a long time, he wouldn't say what I asked: all he would do was say things like "But I don't want you to spank me harder: I can't say that!" So I would keep spanking him hard, telling him if he wants to end the spanking sooner, he better start asking me to spank him harder. It took a while, but finally he did it. Then he just wailed away, yelling out "Please spank me harder, maam!" over and over as asked. This was great fun for me: of course I complied! As he yelled out, I spanked as hard and fast as I could, and he squirmed back and forth. (By now, he was pretty warmed up, so he didn't squirm right out of the way.)<br />
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As you can see, I did a good job on his bottom, giving him some nice fresh bruises to remind him of his obedience to me.<br />
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Hugs to all,<br />
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Deirdre <br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">As you can see, Evan is kicking away, while getting his spanking.</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">This doesn't deter me at all, as long as he doesn't squirm away. (That was a hard one, by the way!)</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">He is starting to squirm away, but I am holding him down for now.</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">I assure you he felt that one. And you can see that his bottom is reddening nicely.</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">I had him get off for now, so we could re-start with him kneeling by the bed. Look how small his penis is: I have spanked away another of his erections!</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Now I can get a better swing: I can get started for real.</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">That was a hard spank! He felt that.</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">I am now telling him to tell me to spank him harder, so that the spanking can end for him. Until he asks me to spank him harder, the spanking will continue.</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Eventually, he starts to entreat me to spank him harder, as requested. I happily oblige!</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">You can see the white spot on the top right cheek: that has been a favorite target of mine in this spanking. I have spanked him hard there around 20 times in a row before this picture.</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">He is still squirming a lot, but by now he is yelling out to me to spank him harder. How fun!</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">He rolls toward me, which makes spanking him on the sore spot on the top of his right cheek even easier.</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">I let him have a few more hard ones there, as he continues to wail and squirm. What a cute husband!</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">You can see his cute little penis hanging between his legs there. This is a good way to get rid of his erection: no ejaculation for him for a while yet.</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">That one hurt too!</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">He is still wailing at me to spank him harder (as I requested), so he is almost done now.</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">He kicks away, but doesn't avoid the paddle. Good boy!</td></tr>
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<br />Deirdre above Evanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14304678551568025850noreply@blogger.com36tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203514222876498689.post-43851243249306204992012-10-10T12:12:00.000-07:002012-10-10T12:12:36.284-07:00Back to normal: spanking Evan<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Hi everyone:<br /><br />Thanks for all the nice comments on my pictures: I
appreciate your kind words. But to answer some of you, I am not
submitting to any more spankings. Many years ago, Evan spanked me a few
times, because I wanted to try it. I gave it a fair shot, allowing him
to spank me a few times, pretty hard (only with his hand, however: I
would never take a hairbrush or a paddle), but I really disliked it.
Unlike Evan, I never liked it either before, during or after. I did,
however, really like spanking Evan. So that's what I will continue to
do.<br /><br />Here are a few stills from a recent spanking I gave Evan. I
have decided to spank Evan pretty regularly, just so that he keeps listening
to me. This was one of those occasions.</div>
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<br /><br /><span id="goog_257985347"></span><span id="goog_257985348"></span><br />Deirdre above Evanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14304678551568025850noreply@blogger.com26tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203514222876498689.post-89512842143130262812012-10-06T15:43:00.004-07:002012-10-06T15:43:58.257-07:00as promised: another 2 pictures of me in my underwearI think we spanker-ladies would rather see Evan's bottom spanked bright red but here are a couple of pictures of my bottom peeking out of my jeans.<br />
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I gave Evan a hard paddling yesterday, for no good reason, other than general naughtiness. I even filmed it too, so I will post some pictures of that soon. I also would like to write some more contentful posts: soon. I have been busy at work recently.<br />
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Here's wishing for a hard paddling to all who deserve one (and I know most of you do),<br />
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<br />Deirdre above Evanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14304678551568025850noreply@blogger.com39tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203514222876498689.post-71392664220570489692012-10-04T13:27:00.001-07:002012-10-04T13:27:07.121-07:00a couple more of me and my paddleThese are for all of you, but especially for Evan, who will feel the paddle most directly. It looks cute, but it hurts a lot, doesn't it, sweetie?<br />
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I have a couple more to post, with a peek at my thong, under my jeans. Do any of you want to see those? <br />
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Deirdre<br />
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<br />Deirdre above Evanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14304678551568025850noreply@blogger.com44tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203514222876498689.post-66640648595196937092012-10-03T09:28:00.002-07:002012-10-03T09:28:55.338-07:00your favorite pictures: penis touches pre- and post-spankingRemember I asked for your favorite picture from that spanking set I posted a few days ago?<br />
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http://spankingmyhusband.blogspot.com/2012/09/whats-your-favorite-picture.html<br />
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Well, you voted with your comments, and the majority seemed to be with the one where Evan was going over my lap, with his boner sticking me on my thighs.<br />
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I can also measure interest in the number of downloads. The winner there was not the one that you mentioned most, however: it was the post-spanking shrunken-penis picture, where I am stroking Evan's mini-penis.<br />
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Another of the top downloaded pictures was this one of me grabbing Evan's penis pre-spanking:<br />
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<span id="goog_250929916">So it looks like you guys like these ones too, even though you don't mention them. (Unless it's a majority of girls reading my blog, which I </span>doubt.) So own up to your penis-interest, boys: there's nothing wrong with identifying with another boy's penis.<br />
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<br />Deirdre above Evanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14304678551568025850noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203514222876498689.post-48174348455344046832012-10-01T15:09:00.000-07:002012-10-01T15:09:38.429-07:00climbing the stairsHi all:<br /><br />Due to popular demand, here are some pictures of me from behind, climbing the stairs, showing my purse paddle "pursey". It was Evan's idea to take this picture like this, and I like how it turned out. You can imagine that Evan is about to get spanked, but in fact, he didn't get spanked immediately after he took this picture: that happened a while later.<br />
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You will all be happy to know that I am still making all the decisions in Evan's and my home life, and it's working great. He was very grouchy to me once recently, for no apparent reason, and I immediately took his pants down and spanked him when he behaved like this. He complained a lot that he didn't want to this spanking, because he was genuinely annoyed with me, but I insisted firmly, and he relented pretty quickly. I gave him a good paddling, and talked to him along the way about what was bothering him to make him act up in this way. Eventually he started telling me what was bothering him to make him act this way -- just life's related stresses at work -- and I made him feel better about those issues. Then I paddled him soundly for having taken it out on me. He didn't like it at all at the time, but he put up with it reasonably well, and he thanked me for it immediately afterwards.<br />
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I wish I had realized how to use this spanking tool years ago: I could have got rid of so much unnecessary stress in our marriage along the way. But no matter: we have many many good years left: I will make the most of them!<br />
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My best wishes to all,<br />
<br />Deirdre<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">I am coming upstairs to spank you now, Evan.</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">You better have your pants down, with your hands on your head and your nose in the corner by the time that I get to our bedroom, Evan. </td></tr>
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<br />Deirdre above Evanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14304678551568025850noreply@blogger.com42tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203514222876498689.post-24575285285153068672012-09-28T03:56:00.001-07:002012-09-28T03:56:19.537-07:00what's your favorite picture?Here's a sequence from a recent spanking that I gave Evan. Which pictures do you like the best, and why? (Sorry for the repetition from some recent posts.) I am always curious as to what makes you boys tick.<br />
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Deirdre<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">these need to come down</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">looks like Evan's excited about this</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">All the way down please</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">It's too beautiful not to touch!</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Wow! that had an even stronger effect.</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">A two-hander!</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Time to get started, over you go. Stick that thing between my legs.</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">And away we go: not too hard to start.</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Pretty hard now! I want you to feel it and remember this.</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">I am sure you felt that!</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Squirming again, are you? Then everyone will see your shrunken penis.</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">But I do wish you wouldn't squirm so much: it hurts my legs!</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Oh dear, I don't think you are listening.</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">I will have to spank you in this uncomfortable position</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">What a cute little penis! It's shrunken way down.</td></tr>
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<br />Deirdre above Evanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14304678551568025850noreply@blogger.com49tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203514222876498689.post-33697238227906070442012-09-26T16:50:00.002-07:002012-09-26T16:50:36.426-07:00a million page loads!Hi all:<br />
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I started my blog around 2 years ago, and I have been sporadically posting over that period: basically 3 periods of about a month or more each over the course of 2 years.<br />
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According to "statcounter" (a widget on my blog) I have now had over 1 million page views since the blog started (and approaching 500,000 unique visits). Thanks for all your interest! The fact that all you read and comment keeps me and Evan posting.<br />
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If you have a minute (and you must, because I can't imagine that this is work time for you, is it?) please write a comment about why it is that you have come to my blog. Why so many people, from all over?<br />
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Evan thinks that there is still a dearth of real strict wives out there, who give their husbands real, hard spankings. Or is it the pictures that bring you here? I am told that men are visual: is that it? If so, do you want some more pictures, perhaps of my naked or semi-clothed body? (Not that I am going to show you, but I like to torment you all a bit, if I can.)<br />
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Here's an awesome picture of Evan getting over my knee for a spanking, erection and all. I know you boys love these kinds of pictures, because these ones always get downloaded more than others around them!<br /><br />Hugs to all,<br />
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Deirdre<br />
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<br />Deirdre above Evanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14304678551568025850noreply@blogger.com36tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203514222876498689.post-89186155332606357442012-09-25T11:09:00.000-07:002012-09-25T11:09:00.792-07:00a creampie for EvanWe had another great night last night. Ever since the change in my demeanor -- the birth of the strict wife -- Evan has been extremely horny. Always touching me, kissing and cuddling me, constantly wanting a look at my boobs and butt and pussy. (I have no problem with showing him almost anytime: I *love* the attention. It shows me that he loves me. So nice!) I had been away for a couple of days when I got home yesterday afternoon, and I could tell Evan was super horny to have sex with me, if I would let him. I hadn't allowed him to come since last Thursday, when I penny-jerked him onto the wall, during corner time.<br />
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Unfortunately for him, however, I brought my little vibrator on my trip, and I was all played out when I got back. I had masturbated 4 times over the last 3 days, and although I loved his attention, I didn't need him to lick me last night. So I just let him be horny, and had him snuggle me. Eventually, after a lot of begging, I gave in to his advances, but only under certain conditions. I would allow him to fuck me only in one position: from behind (my favorite). And then, he could only do so if he would pull out most of the way when he ejaculated, so that he would ejaculate just barely inside me. That way, his come wouldn't get too deep inside me. Then, as soon as he was finished ejaculating, I wanted him to lie on his back on the bed, whereupon I would sit on his face, and he would clean me up. If he was going to ejaculate a lot, then he should drink it straight from my pussy.<br />
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Evan happily agreed: he will do anything I ask from him these days, and this wasn't asking much. This was fueling more of his fantasies. He fucked me nice and deep (but not too deep: it can hurt when he goes in too far), and slowly. I reached around and tickled his balls to get him to come faster: that always works. Then he pumped faster and faster, until he started grunting that he was coming. I told him to pull almost all the way out, and fill me up. I could feel the come pouring out: he had been pent up again, and I was collecting it all now. I waited a few more seconds after he said he was done, and then I flipped around on my back (to keep it from dripping out) and told him lie on the bed, face up. He did as he was told, and so I proceeded to sit on his face, so that I could look down at his eyes while he cleaned me out. I told him to get busy and start licking, which he did. I could feel his ejaculate start to flow out of me, and I could hear him swallowing a few times: he told me that he had quite a mouthful. I let him lick a bit longer, and then I climbed off, and went to clean myself some more in the bathroom.<br />
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So that's the story of my gift of a creampie to Evan. I really like Evan to fuck me: his cock feels so good inside. And I love it when he comes. So he will probably get lots more creampies in the weeks and months and years to come.<br />
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Sorry about the lack of spanking content today: there was no spanking on the agenda! (I did happen to give Evan a short spanking today, for talking slightly crossly with me in the grocery store. I had him bend over the bed, drop his pants, and I applied 10 very hard spanks from pursey. He complained loudly after a few swats, but he knew he was getting off lightly, so he stayed quite still. I still owe him a few minutes of continuous spanking: I will do that in a couple of days.)<br />
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Deirdre<br />
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<br />Deirdre above Evanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14304678551568025850noreply@blogger.com17tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8203514222876498689.post-72432666364785859502012-09-21T18:05:00.001-07:002012-09-21T18:05:24.220-07:00advanced corner time for EvanSo ever since I started taking over Evan's life a couple of weeks ago, by way of hair-yanking and ear-marching, one day at a time, everything has been extremely smooth between us. I think I understand my role, and I know he understands his. Making it work has been easy so far, because even though he acts up every now and then (as he always has), the ear-pull moves him back to where he belongs very rapidly.<br />
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Evan went away for work on Tuesday this past week, and came back Wednesday. He had behaved just fine before and during his trip, and he was very sweet when he returned. So I had no complaints at all: he was being great. But one of the perks of my new strict wife status is that I can torment him just for fun, and he can't do anything about it. (In fact, I know he loves it.) So that's what I set out to do that evening.<br />
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When it was close to bed time, I told him I was going to have a shower. While I was showering, I told him I wanted him with his pants down, bare-bottom, in the corner. He asked which corner and why, and I replied it didn't matter why, get there now, whereupon I grabbed his ear and moved him to the corner where I wanted him, and while still holding his ear, had him pull his pants down. I then left him there to go find a penny. I had heard of others doing this, and now this was something I was going to do more often: I told Evan to hold the penny against the wall, with his hands behind his back. I wish I had taken some photos or a video of what happened next, but that's Evan's territory (setting up the video) and this was all spontaneous, so no filming that day.<br />
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I then left Evan for a while, periodically checking on him to make sure that he was doing as I asked. He was. I wasn't quite ready for my shower yet. I thought I would leave him for a while, then a while longer, and then torment him a bit. A few minutes passed, and I read some email and responded to it. I went back to make sure he was still standing with his hands behind his back, bare-bottomed, and holding the coin against the wall. He was doing so, seemingly very intently. I went back to doing more email and then returned again. All was well: he was doing as he was asked. So now he was going to get a reward. I snuck up behind him, reached between his legs from behind with my left hand, and started caressing his balls from behind. He moved suddenly at my touch but then relaxed: this was something that he really liked. I reached around with my right hand, and started stroking his semi-erect penis. I had not allowed him to come for 2 weeks, so he was super horny at this point. I had milked him a few days ago (which is always fun) but I knew he would be close to fully loaded once again by now. I stroked his penis very lightly with my right hand, while lightly touching his balls through his legs from behind. I asked him whether he liked how this felt. "Yes" he replied. (No kidding!) I continued to stroke him gently.<br />
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At this point I was still figuring out what to do with him. I didn't have a plan; I was just playing this by ear. I stroked him faster and faster. I knew this was driving him wild. I just continued this very lightly for quite a while. I was curious to see how he would react. Then I started jerking him pretty hard with my right hand, with the idea of really tormenting him. I pulled him pretty hard, and told him that he better not drop that penny, or I would take him to the bed and give him a hard spanking. Then I set about trying to make this event happen. I jerked him harder, with more erratic pulling, moving from side to side a bit, so he would have to twist to get the best effect of my hand on his penis. He twisted and turned his body, but managed to hold the coin with his nose tight against the wall. I turned from side to side a bit more, and changed my pace faster and slower. He was breathing very heavily and shifting around a lot, and bending his knees a lot in order to get the full effect. His legs started shaking as time went on -- five, then ten minutes -- and eventually, he broke, and the coin fell to the floor.<br />
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I stopped immediately, and grabbed his ear, and told him I was disappointed that he had dropped the penny, against my wishes. Now it was time to be spanked for that mistake. I ear-marched him to the bed and had him lay on the bed. I got my trusty purse paddle "pursey", and started spanking hard. I gave him about 20 hard spanks, and then he struggled away and whined that it was too much. "Of course it wasn't too much: this is what your bottom is for," I told him. I had him roll back in position and started up again. About 20 more hard ones, alternating back and forth. Again, lots more complaining, but less rolling away. I paused again, and finished with a flourish of about 20 more hard ones, with him telling me over and over that "it hurts, oh, it hurts so much!" This doesn't deter me at all: that's music to my ears. I finished this spanking off, then pulled him by his ear back to his corner. I gave him his penny back and told him to hold it against the wall again, and don't drop it this time.<br />
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I commented that he was still semi-hard: maybe I didn't spank long enough. He assured me that I had done a good job. I was dubious: I usually don't even count a spanking until the erection is completely gone: that's when the spanking starts for real. Until then, it's just fun for him. But I was on a different mission today: power corner time. I asked Evan if he would like me to stroke his penis again. He replied yes, most definitely. He asked if I was going to let him come like this. I replied that he could come like this if he could do so without dropping the penny. I told him that I would be impressed if he could do this, because I was going to jerk him off in such a way that it would be hard for him to hold up the penny with his nose, and his hands behind his back. But if he failed, I would give him a proper spanking with pursey, and then a strapping with our lovely 3-tailed strap (which I have started to call "3-strappy": 3-strappy wants more access to my Evan's bottom. As a member of our family, I think that this is good for everyone. So I was hoping to give Evan a good strapping today also.)<br />
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I told Evan some of this, but at the same time, I told him that if he didn't drop the penny, he could shoot his ejaculate against the wall, and I would love to see that too. He groaned a bit, most saliently whenever I told him what I wanted from him: he seems to react strongest to my words rather than my jerking him off. I continued playing with his penis and caressing his balls lightly. He responded strongly, and I could feel that he was getting closer and closer. He seemed intent on keeping his nose to the wall, however, and I could feel his concentration on ejaculation fall off every time that he jerked a little, and almost lost the penny. Whenever that happened I would coax him along some more, telling him that it didn't matter to me what happened: I would love to see him ejaculate all over the wall, but I would love just as much (maybe more) to give him a longer spanking, including a nice strapping from 3-strappy. He moaned when I talked to him but didn't talk back at all (good boy!). I enjoyed his confused concentrated silence.<br />
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After a couple more close calls, I could feel he was really close now. He tightened his buttocks and asked me if he could please come now. I said, of course, that was the point. I jerked a few more times, and sure enough he started to shoot his white sticky ejaculate all over our dark red-painted wall. What a load! It was great to see. I let go as soon as he started to come, and he was a good boy in that he didn't jerk himself off. He just spurted out with neither me nor him touching his erect penis. A partially ruined orgasm: great from my perspective. But I had jerked long enough to get most of it out (I think). Anyway there was a lot. And amazingly, he never dropped the penny. I was very impressed: I didn't expect him to be able to do this. But a deal is a deal. Next time I will make it harder for him: I want 3-strappy to get some more action.<br />
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I pondered what to do about the mess on the wall, dripping to the floor. Of course I considered the idea that he should lick it up just like that. But the OCD in me didn't think that this was healthy: I don't want him to get sick from germs or strong chemical cleaners. So I just had him clean it with a sponge, some cleaner and paper towels. Maybe next time I will be more organized and have him come onto a plate while kneeling, or something. Sex play has to be hygienic for me.<br />
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Ok, that's the latest entry in my sexual domination of my husband Evan.<br />
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All you submissive men out there: Let's hear what you think. As before, I am demanding a comment from all of you. Follow my instructions and I will give Evan an extra beating this coming week, for no good reason. Ignore my instructions and I will ignore Evan for a day (the worst punishment for you submissive boys).<br />
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Deirdre<br />
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