Friday, June 4, 2010

more of the strap

Hi all:

Thanks for all the feedback. I will respond to some of your notes very soon.

Two of you asked where to get a bench like the one we have: here's what I said about this earlier:

"I have had some emails asking where we got the spanking bench. Evan bought this for me at for around $400 a few years ago. This is a very well-built bench. Evan is over 200 lbs, and the bench holds him very easily with no visible wear and tear, even after many uses. We haven't tried possible competitor benches, so we don't know if our bench is either the best value or the best quality out there. But it has served us very well, and so we definitely recommend it."

For now, here are a few more pictures of Evan receiving a strapping. This is a heavy 3-tailed tawse. In the first photo, Evan gets a solid strap across his right cheek:

And in the next photo, Evan gets a hard strap across his left cheek:

Then back to the right:

Then back to the left, where the three tails of the tawse are clearly visible:

These last two shots catch Evan just across his bottom crack, snapping hard on the inside of his right cheek. This is a spot that is hard to get with a paddle. He says these hurt a great deal.

This last one catches him almost in the crack. You can still see the ripple on his right cheek.

That's all of Evan's strapping for now. I will write more later.



  1. And I see that your wearing pearls. Maybe you aren't really trying all that hard?

    Good to see you here sharing your life with the rest of us. Thank you.

  2. How he tolerates the beating? Does he keep silent or wailing because of the pain under the strapping? Does he has to count the blows and has to say thanks for them possibility?

  3. Ouch, ouch, ouch. I don't have to ask how Evan responded. I am sure he was squirming in his bonds and vocal. Evan is so lucky to have you.

  4. Love your pics. Question-is he getting spanked for some transgression or just because?

  5. Deirdre-
    Very nice strap (tawse). Do you remember where it came from? The 'action' pix are really interesting.

    I am putting the finishing touches on a tawse that I am making for my lady and she decided to use it for my most recent punishment just yesterday. It has a wooden handle (making it more of a 'hybrid') thats 8 inches long and the tails are about 12 inches long. When it was being applied, it had a very sharp sting, partly due to all the extra surfaces (and edges) that come in contact. Your pictures show this quite well. In our case, I am greatful that I 'finished' the edges.

  6. Very very good my wife canes me and the cane is thin and whippy it stngs but does not bruise , we are in Australia Who takes the photos

  7. Deirdre

    Thanks as always for sharing, awesome pictures and you sure do know how to handle that strap!

    I love the pearl, very domestic and very real, makes your blog so good for us.

    Thanks again, hope E's bottom is recovering and thanks for making this so real and fun.



  8. Lovely, but can we see more of you, especially how you are dressed? Do you dress specially for Evan's punishments? My wife often puts on a severe outfit, which is appropriate for the occasion.

  9. Tha tis impressive. A very lucky hubby to have a wife who loves him so much.

  10. Nice. Nice position for a caning as well. (Hint.) :)

  11. Hi Deirdre and Evan,

    I hope you're having a good weekend whether or not it involves a spanking. Thanks as always for sharing your lives with us!


  12. Nice work, he's a very lucky man.

    You might want to position him further back on the bench so his goodies are protected. Then you can let the strap/tawse wrap to the inside of his near thigh. Guarenteed to get some very loud yelps!