First, thanks to Evan for posting his thoughtful views on orgasm denial. I think our view of orgasm denial has moved a lot since we first tried out a female-led relationship. We first tried this as a route to Evan's perhaps listening to me more, and doing what I wanted, when I said so. But we found a different route to that goal, which was simply my being strict. So orgasm denial takes on a new function in our relationship: this is now just a way to play with Evan for my (and indirectly his) amusement.
(But as I have said earlier, I don't know the long-term effects of orgasm denial on a man, so I will allow Evan to orgasm every now and then, even when I generally may like to keep him denied.)
Here are the last few photos from the spanking that I was posting about earlier. Here, Evan is still figged, and I am spanking very hard. In the last photo, you can see that he is completely flopped out over my lap. He has completely given in to the spanking at this point, which is something that I like to bring about in him.
I am working hard early this week so that Evan and I can have a relaxing Thanksgiving, with no work stress later in the week. In case I don't write more this week, happy Thanksgiving to all you Americans out there. I hope that you boys get the spankings that you deserve (and need) and that you are appropriately thankful for them if you do!
|more hard spanking for Evan!|
|I am careful to spank evenly across each cheek|
|That was a hard spank!|
|Evan has finally given up, and flopped completely over my lap, giving in to the spanking. Good boy.|