Thanks to all of you for your support of Deirdre's blog.
Many of you have asked for my take on how my relationship with Deirdre has been going recently, with Deirdre taking strong control of our marriage. Briefly, it has been great. I don't know what clicked in her a few months ago now (September? late August?) when she first grabbed me by my ear and my hair and told me off. But that totally worked for me and for her. Now I always listen to her, even when I am grouchy and don't feel like it. Two days ago we were traveling somewhere in the evening, take a local flight together. I often am somewhat nervous traveling, because I don't like to be late and I don't like the possibility of being late. This makes me tense, especially when there are lots of lines at airports. Anyway, I was tense, and Deirdre could sense this. She told me calmly to relax, that we had lots of time, and that we should always enjoy our time together, no matter what we were doing. I agreed half-heartedly with her, even though I knew she was right: it's just hard to get my attention when I am tense or stressed. Eventually I was a bit short with her (I don't remember exactly when or where) and she told me loudly and clearly that she would deal with me properly when we got to the hotel: she was going to give me a sound spanking and put me in the corner for 30 minutes to make me think about my behavior. This loud threat (which I am sure anyone around us could hear) got me to behave immediately. I stopped behaving tensely with her, and we had a very nice flight.
True to her word however, she gave me a quick hard spanking as soon as we got to the hotel, and put me in the corner with my pants down, hands on my head for 15 minutes (she let me me off 15 minutes for good behavior). We had a wonderful evening after that all around.
All in all, things are going wonderfully. Deirdre spanks me often now: probably twice a week (which is a lot in regular life). We never fight anymore: if I get cranky in any way, she pulls out her purse paddle, and takes my pants down and spanks me as soon after the bad behavior as possible. I have to admit that it is hard to take at times, but we get along so much better like this. She is so calmly in control, which eventually melts me to do her bidding. We are both very happy. For my part, I feel deeply content, moreso than ever in my life before. She makes me completely relaxed when I know she is in control (which is almost always now).
My best to all,
|These shots are from a while ago. Deirdre has already been spanking me for a while at this point, and my legs are kicking (and my bottom is red).|
|Deirdre connected well on that one. If you could see my face, you would see me with my mouth open, yelling out.|
|When I make noise, that just encourages Deirdre to spank more and harder. So there is usually more to come.|
|That one hurt a lot too!|