Friday, December 28, 2012

happy holidays, and new blog by Dianne

Hi all:

Sorry for the long delay in posting.  Evan and I have been very busy last few weeks.  We were in Europe for a little while in November, for my work (Evan tagged along for fun), and then we returned in early December.  We have been busy at work over the past few weeks back at home.  Now we are finally relaxing a bit over the holidays.

While work was so busy during the last month, it has been difficult for me to find time to spank Evan.  But he will be getting lots of spankings in the new year: my secret new year's gift to him.

In case you haven't seen it, here is a a great new blog by Dianne:

http://wifesincharge.blogspot.com/

Here, she talks about her exploration of a spanking relationship with her husband Bob.  Please visit them and welcome them to our neighborhood.

I will try to post more in the coming year, but I am frankly not sure what I will post about.  I have posted about most everything I can think of...  Any ideas from you?  Have I promised something that I may have forgotten about?

Happy new year to all!  Here are some photos from a recent spanking that Evan received.

Hugs to all,

Deirdre









48 comments:

  1. Deidre,
    Thank you so much for the kind words and getting the word out about my site. I must admit I'm shocked to have over 7000 views in just a little over a month since I started the blog. Glad to see you back and posting again. This time of year is always very busy so I know where your coming from. The new pictures look great by the way and thanks to your info I got my very own (pursey). Got to use it a couple of times now and I love it. I don't think Bob does though. LOL. Have a Happy New Year and I hope you had a great Christmas. Thanks again !!!
    Dianne

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    1. Hi Dianne:

      I am so glad that you got a pursey paddle! I bet Bob doesn't like that. Evan used to like it (he got it for me) but I have used it too many times on his bottom now for him to like it anymore.

      I am glad that you are enjoying blogging. Keep it up! We seem to have a loyal following of readers.

      Deirdre

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  2. That looks like good spanking that your husband received.
    Keep up the regular posts. They don't all have to be about spanking. I am sure you do interesting stuff.

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    1. Thanks, Micheal. Yes, I do lots of interesting things, but I don't particularly want to talk about them here because I don't want to out myself in the real world. So that's why I focus on spanking. But I get your point.

      Happy new year,

      Deirdre

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  3. Hope you had a great Christmas and you have wonderful New year. Nice to see another man getting a spanking and long may they continue.

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    1. Thanks, KG. Yes, Evan would agree with you, sort of. In principle, he thinks that it's great that men get spanked by their wives. And he loves that it happens to him. But he really doesn't like it when it's happening!

      Deirdre

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  4. welcome back. we just got back our selves. two weeks in the warm climate before finishing up the holiday madness. we had a great time also. now i have to get busy on the blog again. loving the new pictures.. welcome home again.

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    1. Hi Tommy:

      Thanks for the compliment! I hope you had a good vacation.

      Deirdre

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  5. I'm always happy to see that you have added a new post to your blog and look forward to them. I'm sure it is difficult to keep coming up with new topics, because after all spanking is still just a spanking. Nevertheless, we enjoy hearing about the nuances that come with each one that Evan is subjected to, and your feelings when delivering them. Thanks for posting when you have time.

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  6. Deidre,
    Welcome back and the pics are terrific. I do have one question you might care to answer that others may also care about. You have referred once or twice to your openness about being in charge which I infer to mean you have let others know you spank Evan and control his behavior. I am very curious about how you do this. Both my wife and I would like to be freer about sharing the life style and she has shared with a sister and good friend but not beyond that. We both believe f/m style domestic discipline strengthens relationships as well as resolves behavior issues and knowledge of it is suppressed because those of us that practice it are often guarded. Not everyone is of course. Apparently Ken and Cora (Spanked By My Lady blog) display some of their instruments openly and deserve credit for doing so. But back to my question how do you do it and if you can tell us what kind of reactions you have had
    Alan Munroe.

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    1. Hi Alan:

      Well, I am open about spanking Evan, up to a point. I don't mention it to his family, and I don't mention it in work situations. But in a social situation, where people are equals, I will sometimes let it drop that I like to dominate him in various ways, and that he does whatever I say. If people know me, then they aren't very surprised: I come across as very dominant in day to day life. But I look kind of sweet and innocent: so if people don't know me, they are surprised. But that's just based on my appearance.

      Anyway, maybe I could write a post about that: I am not sure.

      Deirdre

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  7. Deidre,
    My wife has agreed to spank me if I don't lose weight, but now I am really scared, not about the pain, but about what she will think of me if we actually follow through. Any advice for me?

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    1. Hi Anon:

      Evan and I have thought of tying weight-loss / working-out to spanking, but we don't think that it really works for us. Basically, I want Evan to be fit, and so does he. And I want to spank him. But I don't want him to feel bad about himself if he has a few extra pounds (especially since I really don't care how much he weighs). So I don't want to spank him to get him to lose weight, because I don't want him to get the idea that I would love him less if he was heavier, because I won't. I only spank him for (a) behavior issues (rudeness to me or someone else) or (b) my enjoyment. Underlyingly, I know he needs the spankings too.

      Good luck with your weight loss!

      Deirdre

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  8. Deidre,
    Glad you are back, I always enjoy your posts, and will be looking forward to more of your spanking sessions with Evan, whether they are erotic or discipline, I love them all!
    Dave

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  9. These images have so much emotional and erotic power. The reason is their authenticity, their realism. You love each other, are deeply committed to one another, and you show your readers that you have a real live one to one domestic disciplinary relationship.

    This is not a dungeon or an elaborate boudoir--it is a home, your home, and you are gracious and generous to share it with us.

    These images have a homey, "hand-made" in the best sense feel to them. Any one of us, husband or wife, man or woman can imagine ourselves being in a similar setting, giving or receiving, punishing or submitting, expressing our devotion to the one we love.

    jm

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    1. hi jm:

      Thanks for the compliments regarding our pictures. They are indeed real! Each one is a real spanking that Evan received from me. We have fun making the videos, but we hardly ever watch them. They are more for you guys than anyone else, just so you know that what I say is true.

      Deirdre

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  10. It was nice to see a new post from you. Reading your blog is always a pleasure. I hope that you have a happy new year and I look forward to your future posts in 2013.

    As you say, you have given us a lot of nice information already, so perhaps you feel that you have exhausted what you have to say. Nonetheless, I will mention a few topics about which I would enjoy reading further.

    I am always eager to hear more about prostate milking, especially given the practical and realistic way in which you discuss it. I would also be interested in hearing more about how you have Evan consume his semen (either milked or ejaculated). A post about very basic spanking techniques could also be interesting, especially for those of us who may just be getting started. A personal favorite of mine is posts with your spanking bench; I hope to acquire one of those benches in 2013!

    Thanks again for maintaing this blog and I'm sure I will enjoy your future posts, independent of the exact topic.

    --Robert

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    1. Hi Robert:

      Ok, thanks for the positive feedback.
      I too love the spanking bench: it's about time to bring that out again.

      Deirdre

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  11. Hi
    Hope you had a wonderful time and relaxed but happy you are both well and busy.

    Nice amazing spanking from a lovely lady, you are just too beautiful, those legs and that paddle, wow.

    Much peace and happiness as well as good health for the New Year.

    Always
    Ron

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  12. Well you've done it again, gotten me excited by you lovely pictures of you, showing off your beautiful legs while disciplining your hubby. Lucky guy! With your permission I'd like to relieve that excitement.

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    1. Hi Bill:

      Well, it's been a few days since you asked to be relieved. I hope that you waited for my reply, and didn't assume that I would grant your request.

      If you already relieved yourself, then I ask that you cease from masturbation for one week from today: no relief of any kind until Jan 11. Please let me know that you will follow through on this request.

      Deirdre

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  13. Oh Dierdra, there is so much we would love to hear about. I love how you have extended your dominance beyond spanking. I would love to hear more about your strapon play. Maybe even some discreet pictures? Do you ever discipline Evan outside the home? Maybe this year he can start wearing panties for you occasionally. Up the humiliation factor. And finally, i have to say, I loved the sexy pictures of you! Would love to see you in pretty bras and panties disciplining Evan!

    Thank you, thank you!!

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    1. Hi Anon:

      Ok, some nice ideas there! Regarding dress-up while spanking Evan, I haven't done that much, because I mostly just spank him when I am ready to do so, around the house. But it would be fun to spank him for a planned audience sometime, wearing sexy clothes. So maybe I will do that soon.

      The other ideas are fine too: I may get to them soon. Thanks for all the suggestions.

      Deirdre

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  14. Dear Deirdre,
    Glad you're back and that everything is going so well with you and Evan.
    I sincerely hope you continue with your blog, because I love your
    comments, not only about spanking, but on other things that interest you as well.
    About suggestions: Does Evan like to play the mischievous brat in a vanilla and public situation, knowing he is safe? And then, do
    you later tell him he's going to get it, at a certain time and place? And do you love watching him squirm and sweat in anticipation? We'd love to read about it!
    Happy New Year, Deirdre and Evan!
    -ricky

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    1. Hi ricky:

      thanks for your suggestion: I will see if I can write about that. (Short answer: Evan is not really bratty to me, because he really doesn't like his spankings: he does whatever he can to avoid them.)

      Deirdre

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    2. I'm sorry, I missed that in your previous posts.
      I guess I was just projecting my own fantasy on to
      you and Evan. Please forgive me.
      But what I have observed is that Evan loves you very, very, much, as you love him, very, very, much.
      Thank you for sharing,
      -ricky

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    3. No problem! We all do that to some extent. It's part of being human!

      Deirdre

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  15. Dear Deirdre,

    Obedient Hubby here. Thanks for your posting and please don't feel burdened by having to come up with "new" things to tell. Just dash off a note when you feel like it and please don't drop out of sight. Just a quick note about how you managed Evan, or a post from Evan about his point of view, whatever you can find the time and inclination to write, either of you. Best Wishes for a Healthy and Happy New Year.

    O.H.

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  16. well back miss strict Dierde i mess your posting blogs i figure you must be real busy which is why we havent heard anything good to know you still have to and been dishing out hard spanking to evan

    you would think by now he be more behave and wouldnt need spanked or punish by you that much well i think you said one time you havent had to spank him as much and gone long period of not having to punish him maybe it the serious offense he hasnt repeated so didnt have spank him for same thing

    https://fetlife.com/users/57798
    my fetlife profile you can see my pic and check me out i have a butt that waiting for spanking from you

    Mike
    madison ohio
    age 41

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    1. Dear Mike:

      Thanks for reading!

      Deirdre

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    2. Dear Deirde

      Ya Welcome For Me Reading Your Blog I Enjoy Your Blog and Miss Strict Julie Blogs

      Wish I Could Get Spanked By You or Her That be Dream Come True For Me

      Mike
      Madison ohio
      age 41

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  17. Hi Deidre,
    Frequent reader, but infrequenter commenter here. Anyhow, I love your blog and every time I see that bench I squirm for Evan. Hope my wife never sees it!
    Thanks for the intro to wifesincharge blog. Not a stretch to see how your followers would like her blog too.
    Happy New Year!

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    1. Dear Property:

      Yes, my bench is great. Every woman should have one for her man. Too bad your wife doesn't have one yet. What's her email? I would be happy to suggest it to her, because I see that you are too shy. (I know that you really want to try it.)

      Deirdre

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  18. Hey Diedre,
    I just wanted to write and thank you for helping Dianne and also helping her get the word out about her blog. I hope you keep blogging even if you have nothing new to discuss. Your pictures were great again in this post and I kind of feel sorry for Evan cause I know how that paddle feels now since Dianne ordered one of her own. Not a pleasant thing to be on the receiving end. But does teach a great lesson.
    Have a happy and prosperous 2013.
    Bob S.

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    1. hi Bob:

      Happy new year! Yes, pursey is great, isn't it? I hope that Dianne is firm with you with it.

      Deirdre

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    2. Deidre,
      I wouldn't call it great from my end but it is her new favorite paddle for over the knee spankings. And yes she is firm with me and it. A little to firm at times I think but that's not my decision to question.
      Bob S.

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  19. L.'s derrière is sore - but otherwise in reasonably good shape after getting his daily treatment over the first eight of my "twelve days of Christmas" ministrations. Three more to go before the "grand finale" on January 6!

    J.

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  20. Deirdre,

    Welcome back. As so many others, I'm always glad when I find a new post by you or Evan. Have a great 2013.

    Michael_Michael

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  21. Dear Deirde

    Ya Welcome For Me Reading Your Blog I Enjoy Your Blog and Miss Strict Julie Blogs

    Wish I Could Get Spanked By You or Her That be Dream Come True For Me but i know never going happen maybe i can meet strict female who will blister my ass good

    Mike
    Madison ohio
    age 41

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  22. Nice photos. markiee

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  23. Great blog. You should upload the videos to spanking tube :)

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  24. My wife spanks me two times a week wed and sun always bare bottom and with a hairbrush stlye paddle same as yours. I am also spanked when she feels i have been naughty as she says. After she read things on your blog she has taked to carrying the paddle in her purse so far i have been spanked at my FIL house after he went to bed and she threatend to spank me infront of my sister inlaw who i think thought my wife was jokeing. Do you spank where others can hear pr even see it? I am spanked long and hard and have to admit i do act better now on avg i am spanked 3-4 times a week i love how hard you spank and i feel for your hubby as i know how it hurts. My fear is i am gonna get spanked woth my sister inlaw present and i she is a more stern person than my wife i am scared i could end up over her knee to thats not right is it?

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  25. Men a wild animals with a paleomamilian brain which will respond to humiliation and pain when words will not work. With a lexan paddle in hand tell him to take off his pants. Tell him too that this is really going to hurt. Then really make it hurt. Let him know that any sass or improper tone toward you will earn him the same. Tell him this behavior WILL change.

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