Friday, October 12, 2012

Evan, a well spanked husband: "Please spank me harder maam!"

Here are the rest of the pictures from the last spanking I gave Evan.

As you can see, we started with Evan over my lap on the bed.  He squirms around a lot like that, and so soon I had him kneel on the floor by the bed, where I could get a better swing.

Then I told him that I would give him only 50 hard spanks (approximately: I don't want to count) to finish his spanking, but only if he asked me to "Please spank me harder maam" all the way through the 50.  If he stopped asking me to spank him harder, then I would start over.  This was very fun.  For a long time, he wouldn't say what I asked: all he would do was say things like "But I don't want you to spank me harder: I can't say that!"  So I would keep spanking him hard, telling him if he wants to end the spanking sooner, he better start asking me to spank him harder.  It took a while, but finally he did it.  Then he just wailed away, yelling out "Please spank me harder, maam!" over and over as asked.  This was great fun for me: of course I complied! As he yelled out, I spanked as hard and fast as I could, and he squirmed back and forth.  (By now, he was pretty warmed up, so he didn't squirm right out of the way.)

As you can see, I did a good job on his bottom, giving him some nice fresh bruises to remind him of his obedience to me.

Hugs to all,

Deirdre

As you can see, Evan is kicking away, while getting his spanking.

This doesn't deter me at all, as long as he doesn't squirm away.  (That was a hard one, by the way!)

He is starting to squirm  away, but I am holding him down for now.
I assure you he felt that one.  And you can see that his bottom is reddening nicely.

I had him get off for now, so we could re-start with him kneeling by the bed.  Look how small his penis is: I have spanked away another of his erections!

Now I can get a better swing: I can get started for real.

That was a hard spank!  He felt that.

I am now telling him to tell me to spank him harder, so that the spanking can end for him.  Until he asks me to spank him harder, the spanking will continue.
Eventually, he starts to entreat me to spank him harder, as requested.  I happily oblige!

You can see the white spot on the top right cheek: that has been a favorite target of mine in this spanking.  I have spanked him hard there around 20 times in a row before this picture.

He is still squirming a lot, but by now he is yelling out to me to spank him harder.  How fun!

He rolls toward me, which makes spanking him on the sore spot on the top of his right cheek even easier.

I let him have a few more hard ones there, as he continues to wail and squirm. What a cute husband!

You can see his cute little penis hanging between his legs there.  This is a good way to get rid of his erection: no ejaculation for him for a while yet.

That one hurt too!

He is still wailing at me to spank him harder (as I requested), so he is almost done now.

He kicks away, but doesn't avoid the paddle.  Good boy!



36 comments:

  1. Great pictures!

    When I report to my maid servant for my punishments, she usually starts with a few slaps to my face before putting me over her knee.

    After each slap, I have to count it, thank her for it and then ask for one more. This is also true for each spanking. She doesn't start back from the beginning however, but she will repeat the spanking (or slaps) and add a couple more as punishment.

    Often my ass would be really red and I would be squirming in pain, but I have learnt never to mess up the count.

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    1. To me, a maid servant is a woman that serves. Is that who is spanking you? That's very unusual! I would spank my maid servant, not the other way around.

      I am glad that you have learned to count, even under the pressure and pain of a spanking.

      Deirdre

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    2. Oh it's a long story :-) I wrote a few stories on Literotica based on my real life experiences (one of them I linked to from my name above). Basically I had a maid servant in India, she knew I was attracted to her and she knew about my submissive lifestyle.

      She is still in my employment, but she's maid only in name - in reality it is I who serve her now. I love her to bits and would do anything for her.

      PS. I wrote the stories on Literotica with her permission.

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  2. Luv the imprint that the paddle makes on his ass and the reddness also
    john

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    1. Me too! The paddle shakes his bottom very well when I strike him hard and when he relaxes his bottom. I don't see this too well in real time, but it's cool to see in the recording. Anyway, because I like to see this later, I tell him that spanks in which he tenses his bottom don't count. This makes him relax his bottom for the paddle, and I get some better videos.

      Deirdre

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  3. Deidre,
    Could you say a little about the degree of domination you have
    over your husband.

    Bill

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    1. Hmmm.... not sure what to say here. What do you have in mind? In all couples' issues, I have the final say. And he cooks, cleans etc. The most important issue for me is that he always talks politely to me, and treats me with the utmost respect. (He hasn't always done this: some good ear-pulling and hair-pulling has fixed all his temporary rudeness.)

      Deirdre

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    2. He cooks and cleans....he does pamper you...as he should. Do you help him a little or does he do all of the cooking and cleaning?

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  4. Deirdre,
    What a great set of pictures along with terrific comments.
    I love the concept of making him ask for more, harder as the only way to hope to end the spanking. Such delicious conflict!
    You look beautiful even fully dressed.
    Thanks so much for sharing.
    MrBill

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    1. Thanks Mr. Bill.

      Evan says that Mr Bill was a plasticine guy on Saturday Night Live who said "oh no". Does Mrs. Bill spank your plasticine butt to keep you in line?

      Deirdre

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    2. That's right, he said "oh no" just before getting flattened by Sluggo. Mrs. Bill does sometimes flatten my cock and balls with her feet. She is getting more comfortable with spanking me harder, but she doesn't do it to keep me in line- yet.

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  5. I would gladly ask you to spank me harder.

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    1. Hi Micheal:

      Well, I think Evan thought so too, until he was getting spanked, very hard. I think it's hard to ask for a harder spanking when the current spanking is already beyond your comfort level. Anyway, that's the idea. If it was too easy for you, I would find some other thing to make it harder, so you couldn't bear it, and you would have to ask for more, in order for it to stop eventually.

      Deirdre

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  6. Deirdre,

    Just when I think you have moved us to a place you take the next step. I read this one slowly, as I grew harder and was thinking wow, stop squirming so you can stay over her lap but then I see how you positioned him on the edge of the bed and you sat right next to hom with your arm on him; I love the contact with my spanker and that is just sexy but wow, what a serious spanking, love it.

    Asking for harder, oh lord, that is amazing. Well done ma'am. And agree with Mr. Bill, you look lovely!

    Always
    Ron

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  7. Miss Deidre,
    Again great pictures. Love how you've become a real no nonsense disciplinarian for Evan. Looking at these pictures there is no doubt how hard a spanking you can deliver. No wonder Evan has become so well behaved. Just as I am with my lovely wife/disciplinarian. And making him ask you to spank him harder so it can end. What a concept you have with that although I don't know if Evan would agree. LOL
    Bob S.

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    1. Hi Bob:

      I think that Evan is well behaved because of my attitude, not because of my spanking. I think he actually likes the spankings. That's ok: I like them too. But what I really like is that he is always polite to me now, no matter what, and he defers to me.

      Deirdre

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  8. I love the way you show off Evans shriveled penis

    Hear is an ideaa try spanking him in a dressing room at a department store

    So that the salesmen can hear and ask if everything is ok in there:)

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    1. Thanks WC!

      I don't know if we will do that. I know someone who has spanked her husband in a department store parking lot. I might do that. It's more private, but still public.

      Probably Julie will go for your idea, though!

      You never know!

      Deirdre

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  9. more wonderful discipline pictures. I particularly like the ones of you in jeans spanking Evan at the edge of the bed. Have you ever spanked him while straddling his back while paddling his bottom? Just wondering. Thank you so much for the pictures

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    1. Hi Tommy:

      I don't think so... But I may do so sometime soon. No reason why not.

      Deirdre

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  10. Great post, Deirdre, but I have a question: how does Evan like the stricter you?

    Walter

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    1. Hi Walter:

      Yes, of course, how could he not? It's what he wanted.

      But I get your point: the things we think we want are not always what we actually want. Well, I think Evan actually did want this, so he is happy. But it's about time for him to post some more, so he can tell you himself sometime soon.

      Do you hear me, honey?

      Deirdre

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  11. may i ask question why dont we ever see clear pic of your face or evan face is it for protection reason?

    i love pic of you in blue jeans i for sure will tell you to spank me harder even so i think your spanking will be hard in first place but if i want punishment spanking over soon i will obey your command and ask to be spanked harder might even ask for more number of spanks too sometime seeing these pic make me pretend iam one over your lap being spanked


    Mike
    madison ohio

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    1. What are you saying about my face, Mike? Those are clear pictures of my face: that's what I look like.

      Well, not really. Yes, you're right, Mike, I don't want to be identified. As non-ashamed as I am of my life and lifestyle, I am not certain that my and Evan's employers feel the same way. So we are keeping it private for now. In a few years, we will probably be completely out of the closet, because by then I hope it won't put us at a professional disadvantage.

      Deirdre


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    2. ssorry dierde it just i see a blur spot on your face and oyur face dont come clear out enough for me to see sorry if offend you but you really do look like a very sexy beautiful you lady

      there a blur spot on your face so your face not really clear enoug for me to see


      mike
      madison ohio

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  12. Finally some nice spanked husband images for a change ;-) I am inspired to take david to bed (face down) and do just what you did to evan!

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    1. Good for you, Julie! Give a few hard ones for me, will you?

      Deirdre

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  13. Ms. Deirdre-
    Love the pix and the scenario you set up sound very erotic, indeed. BTW have you and Evan considered a longer paddle? Cora loves to bend me over and give me some very firm pops with her longer paddles such as her 18 inch 'Spencer' paddle. She can get both of my cheeks at the some time with it.
    Ken

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    1. Yes, I have a bunch of other implements. I just like my purse paddle (pursey) best, and I have it with me at all times. I don't see the point of so many other implements. This is all I really need: according to Evan it hurts as much or more than anything else we own anyway. It's different from the big paddles, but I can strike very fast and hard with pursey.

      Deirdre

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  14. Two comments from a single male who has never been spanked in adult life...but has fantasized having this kind of relationship, for more than a decade:
    Do you ever spank him, if not on camera, with him naked? I would consider that part of the punishment.
    Have you considered milking him before spanking? I am told, but lack experience, that this accentuates the feeling of the spanking.

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    1. Hi guy:

      Yes, I often spank Evan naked. I think he is usually naked when strapped to the bench. When I spank him on the spur of the moment (which is often) I just get his pants and underwear down, and spank right there.

      There is ambiguity in what you mean by "milking". If you mean have him ejaculate first, no, we still have never done that. I am sure I will do it eventually, but I haven't got around to it. Part of the reason not to do this is that I like to keep Evan aroused as much as possible at all times, but not letting him ejaculate at all. So he often goes 1-3 weeks without ejaculating. (He is over 2 weeks right now.) I find he is more attentive and less grouchy when he hasn't ejaculated in a while.

      On the other hand, if you mean prostrate milking by the term "milking" then yes we have done that. I have spanked then milked Evan, and in the reverse order. I don't think a prostrate milking reduces Evan's sexual arousal, so I don't think that there is any effect on how the spanking feels. That what he says.

      Deirdre

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  15. Clever one!

    Maybe you could try out a variant of this game too: count to only 25!
    Does it look too easy?
    Not really, if you have to enumerate the Fibonacci series:

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fibonacci_number

    The first few numbers are easy, but as he goes forward, the task (just a summation of the last two numbers) gets more and more difficult.

    Of course: in case of an error, you could start over the spanking.

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    1. Dear cp:

      Thanks for the suggestion. But, omg, instead of counting, give fibonacci numbers? That would be so difficult, so fast! Have you tried this? I think that this task might be too hard. When Evan is being spanked hard, it is difficult for him to do any difficult reasoning. (If it were easy for him, I would spank a lot harder!) That is, I spank him hard enough so that he can't do any hard thinking during a spanking. All he can do is simple rote tasks, like apologize over and over, or beg me to stop etc. I imagine he could do a simple addition task, where the same number is added over and over (like adding 17s, which is difficult) but doing an addition task where the addends are constantly updated is probably too hard. We have tried tasks like this, and he just can't do them under this duress. (I am not complaining: I like that I can cause him to lose the ability to think coherently during a spanking.)

      But thanks for the suggestion! You should try it and tell me what your experience is.

      Deirdre

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    2. Yeah, I've tried this already. Not with spanking, but with teasing & denial. It's a funny but annoying game :o)
      At first sight, it may appear too hard, but actually the task is pretty scalable. You can see for example, to calculate the 25th number, you have to add 28657 to 46368! It's very hard, almost impossible for a lot of people. But to calculate the 15th one, you only have to add 377 to 610...which is way more easy. So an easier problem would be: "enumerate the first 15 item of the series" - if you concentrate well, you could get away with 15 spanks, but if you make an error at the 15th, it will become 30, and so on... :)
      But generally it depends on how are you good at mental calculations.
      My experiences: after a few re-run, I began to learn the most frequent numbers, so theoretically I could (at least try to) concentrate on my last erroneous addition while I re-enumerated the series. It sounds easy, but I made a lot of silly errors and I started to feel ashamed - but finally I could get through with it - don't ask me how. :o)

      I think this game could be an egokiller, especially when your girlfriend is smiling at you - she knows the answer, but you don't. Crazy. :)

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  16. Hi Deirdre,

    I'd like to see pictures of you pulling Evan's hair and twisting his ear to assert your dominance over him. Any chance you could accommodate me?

    all the best,

    Walter

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