Monday, October 1, 2012

climbing the stairs

Hi all:

Due to popular demand, here are some pictures of me from behind, climbing the stairs, showing my purse paddle "pursey".  It was Evan's idea to take this picture like this, and I like how it turned out.  You can imagine that Evan is about to get spanked, but in fact, he didn't get spanked immediately after he took this picture: that happened a while later.

You will all be happy to know that I am still making all the decisions in Evan's and my home life, and it's working great.  He was very grouchy to me once recently, for no apparent reason, and I immediately took his pants down and spanked him when he behaved like this.  He complained a lot that he didn't want to this spanking, because he was genuinely annoyed with me, but I insisted firmly, and he relented pretty quickly.  I gave him a good paddling, and talked to him along the way about what was bothering him to make him act up in this way.  Eventually he started telling me what was bothering him to make him act this way -- just life's related stresses at work -- and I made him feel better about those issues.  Then I paddled him soundly for having taken it out on me.  He didn't like it at all at the time, but he put up with it reasonably well, and he thanked me for it immediately afterwards.

I wish I had realized how to use this spanking tool years ago: I could have got rid of so much unnecessary stress in our marriage along the way.  But no matter: we have many many good years left: I will make the most of them!

My best wishes to all,

Deirdre

I am coming upstairs to spank you now, Evan.

You better have your pants down, with your hands on your head and your nose in the corner by the time that I get to our bedroom, Evan.

42 comments:

  1. Nice way for stress relief! :-)

    Great pics, by the way!

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  2. Deirdre,

    You are wearing my favorite spanking outfit, jeans and just a bra. Put on a pair of heels and you're set. BTW, I sent Julie a personal account of getting spanked by my wife while she wears this outfit. Hopefully, she will share it on here blog. If not, I can fwd it to you for your reading pleasure.

    You look absolutely stunning climbing those stairs!

    Jeff

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    1. Thanks, Jeff! You are very kind.

      I often wear heels, but I wasn't this one time.

      I look forward to reading your story on Julie's blog.

      Deirdre

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  3. You are so gorgeous!

    I love the tiny little trickle of hair in the first pic. Also, the arch of your foot is very cute, it just demands attention...

    john

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    1. Dear John:

      I hadn't noticed my hair in the first picture: what a keen eye you have. And I am glad you like my foot: Evan is going to massage my feet tonight. I like it when he does that.

      Deirdre

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  4. being the spanking pervet that I really am, i used to keep count of all the ladies I saw at the mall while walking thru it while my kiddo did his things he did at the mall. I only counted the ladies that I felt would be a real top notch spanker. a ten in other words. From your pictures you have posted i was always sure that you were a 10 and I mean that as a compliment and these pictures realy show why. thank yu for posing for these.

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    1. Thanks very much Tommy! That's very nice.

      Deirdre

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  5. I can imagine your husband waiting nervously as you climb those stairs.

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    1. Yes, that's what I was hoping you'd imagine. But in fact, Evan took the pictures, so the captions were a bit make-believe (but true in some other instances). That's my artistic license at work!

      Deirdre

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  6. Ms. Deirdre-
    Oh my, what an erotic view of you on the stairs. There is just something sexy and powerful about this view of a woman's Derriere and the fact that she is holding the instrument that will set my bottom on fire.

    And I love the way you speak of using your spanking tool. I can't wait to share it with Cora (although perhaps it might result in the image of you becomeing real with her!).
    Ken

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    1. Thanks, Ken!

      What do you mean that "it might result in the image of you becoming real with her"? I don't want to interfere in your marriage! I want Cora to spank you!

      Deirdre

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    2. Well, I didn't get spanked (this time) but Cora thoroughly enjoyed reading your post.
      Ken

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  7. Miss Deirdre,
    Great post and great pics. I've always dreamed of having a Female Led relationship and recently within the past couple of months it has become a reality. I let my desire to be spanked cause me to do something terrible. And my wife with the help of "Miss Julie" has done a complete turn around. It's been a rough couple of months but as you said our marriage is stronger and the stress is gone. Replaced with her relieving any anger on my bottom. And me accepting responsibilty for my actions with a very red and sore butt.
    Bob

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    1. Dear Bob:

      I hope that you didn't really do something terrible. Good luck with the new relationship style: I hope your wife is ok with it, and that she enjoys it, and that you get what you deserve (a bruised bottom). Please send your wife my best wishes.

      Deirdre

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    2. Miss Deidre,
      I'm afraid I did do something terrible but it has been resolved by my lovely wife. And also with some advice to her from Miss Julie. And as far as being ok with this new relationship my wife loves her new role of being a strict wife over me. Probably more than I do as I have found out my fantasy of spanking and the reality of it are worlds apart. Dianne only punishes me for real offences and believe me they are real punishments not playful. Like you she spanks hard and makes sure that I understand whatever I'm being spanked for was wrong and to drive the point home to not let it happen again. She has taken total control of our relationship and I'm a better man for it. And of course I will be happy to give her your best wishes ma'am.
      Bob S.

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  8. Ms Deirdre,
    Thank you for those lovely pictures, you are definitely a very attractive Lady, Evan is a fortunate man.

    As I am sure Evan knows very well, no punishment spanking is pleasant at the time for the one on the receiving end, however it can be quite a turn on for the spanker. But the after effects are so worth it for both the spanker and spankee. Like you it took me many years to learn this, but once learned, life improved so much! Keep up the good work and I love you blog!

    HUGS,
    Dave

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    1. Thank you for the compliment, Dave. Yes, spanking Evan turns me on a lot. Not so much for him at the time, but it's something that he needs, even though he sometimes fights it at the time.

      I am going to make sure that I keep him well spanked from this day forward. It's good for both of us in many ways. I am glad that you have found a similar relationship.


      Deirdre

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  9. Deirdre,

    You are just beautiful ma'am, wow, amazing shots. You are as lovely as I would imagine, your man is very lucky.

    Even sexier would be if he was following you up those stairs for his spanking.

    Further I so love the fact you just take him on your lap and tan his hide when he steps out of line, that is just hot.

    Beautiful and thank you for the extra special glimpse at one of the sexiest laps I know.
    Always
    Ron

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    1. Dear Ron:

      Thanks for the compliment. Yes, well, Evan actually was following me up the stairs: he's the one who took the pictures. The captions were a bit of artistic license on my part.

      Thanks for following my blog!

      Deirdre

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    2. Well he did a nice job and wow, I can now see why he is so hard going over your lap, you are lovely, ma'am!

      My distinct pleasure Deirdre
      Always
      Ron

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    3. Again amazing and love the bra as well
      Always
      Ron

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  10. But what if you were leading Evan up the stairs?
    You know, swish, swish, and all that?
    And you wonder what makes we boys tick!
    ricky

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    1. Well, actually I was leading Evan up the stairs in this event.

      And I think I am starting to understand how you boys tick. I tease Evan about having about three neurons when it comes to his spanking need. You boys are complicated but simple. I will elaborate later.

      Deirdre

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  11. When I dispatch L. to the bedroom (usually - but not always-in the evening), he knows he is expected to kneel on the bed, bare-bottomed, and to await my coming as long as I please.

    But if (as occasionally happens) he knows he is guilty of an "actionable" misdeed that I haven't yet had a chance to discover, he may spontaneously "assume the position", and wait for me to find out what he did - and to administer the appropriate punishment!

    J.

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    1. ... and then there are the times when I was marched up the stairs, bare-bottomed, with one of your maple switches lashing my derrière all the way to the bedroom (where the "fun" really begins!

      L.

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    2. Hi J:

      Thanks for the comment. How long does he typically have to wait like that? What's the longest he had to wait? And have you ever forgot him like that?

      Deirdre

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    3. Hi L:

      That sounds like a lot of fun for J! I hope it wasn't much fun for you: a lot of the fun for me is in making extremely un-fun for Evan. Then it sinks in better.

      Thanks for the comments,

      Deirdre

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    4. L's "waiting time" seldom lasts more than 30 minutes -most times, it's about 15 minutes- but there was one occasion when it went a bit overtime, because I was calling my sister and got so wrapped up in the conversation that I almost forgot that L. was waiting upstairs -and eventually told her that my hubby's derrière badly needed a serious encounter with the martinet!

      J.

      PS: No, I never forget to give him what he deserves!

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    5. "Fun" does not really describe it. I don't know about Evan, but I, for one, get something of a "rush" when J. gets in the mood to paddle or whip my backside. It certainly "sinks in", as you put it, but we both enjoy it -albeit, in different ways...

      L.

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    6. Thanks, J&L! Email me directly if you ever want to get in direct contact.

      Deirdre

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  12. Ms. Dierdre- Yes, whoa.. you look stunning! And I have to admit your combination of beauty and power has me playing with myself here.. I must need a spanking! :)

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    1. Thanks, SS!

      My experience is that you boys all need lots of spankings, most of the time.

      Deirdre

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  13. Well I can only concur with what all the other posters have said about how great You look (as always). The thing that I a really pleased to hear however is this : "You will all be happy to know that I am still making all the decisions in Evan's and my home life, and it's working great." - My only comment... "As it should be!" I wish more people could understand that relationships can work so much better (for both parties) when the Woman is in charge.

    It was good to note also that spanking You describe in this episode was not about fun, but was for genuine punishment - and look how beneficial it was for both of you!

    Keep up this superb work. You are truly the Woman of the future!

    Respectfully

    Steve T

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    1. Thanks, Steve. That was kind and thoughtful.

      Deirdre

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  14. You are beautiful. The first image is a HIT with me. My wife just started spanking me and is a bit hesitant because my ass turns red really fast, but we are getting there, and I hope soon she will be acting like you in the images.

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    1. Dear vs-boy:

      Be patient with your wife: she may not like the bruises that come with hard spanking. I hope, for your sake, that she doesn't mind. (I certainly don't: they are a sign that I did something useful.)

      Someday I will try to post my own how-to manual for spanking boys like Evan and you, for anyone to use.

      Deirdre

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  15. would i be in trouble and have be spanked with that brush if i told you u have great butt i would love to spank or smack myself i usally check out the female butt when iam out and about if i think they have great butt i think about them spanking my butt instead of me smacking there even so there few female butt i want smack myself but if they spanker instead i wouldnt think of doing that
    i also love this pic and your jeans and butt too
    Mike
    age 41
    madison ohio

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    1. Mike, no, of course you aren't in trouble for saying I have a great butt. That's a compliment, where I come from.

      Good luck finding a woman to spank your properly. (But I don't think that this is the best place to find someone: mostly you will find other men here, or women who already have a man to spank.)

      Deirdre

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    2. thanks for me not being in trouble for saying yiu have great butt i do love to compliment female on there body but i have never told female in person she has great butt and glad to know it compliment where you come from.
      Deirde
      thanks again for luck in finding a woman who will spank me properly i do agree your right the female i find on these blog on here mostly female who does spank but ito nly husband or bf they give spankings too and mens are here more to read blogs i came here from strict julie spanks blog she a cool person like yourself

      hope to some day to have or find a woman to give me daily spankings and blister my butt properly too

      Mike
      madison ohio
      age 41

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  16. I agree. Excuse my directness " great butt"

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