Deirdre
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| these need to come down |
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| looks like Evan's excited about this |
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| All the way down please |
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| It's too beautiful not to touch! |
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| Wow! that had an even stronger effect. |
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| A two-hander! |
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| Time to get started, over you go. Stick that thing between my legs. |
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| And away we go: not too hard to start. |
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| Pretty hard now! I want you to feel it and remember this. |
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| I am sure you felt that! |
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| Squirming again, are you? Then everyone will see your shrunken penis. |
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| But I do wish you wouldn't squirm so much: it hurts my legs! |
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| Oh dear, I don't think you are listening. |
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| I will have to spank you in this uncomfortable position |
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| What a cute little penis! It's shrunken way down. |
Oh my, what a set, love them all but honestly top one is Time to get started followed by pretty hard now. Time to get started is amazing, love him going over your beautiful lap and him showing his love for you and well pretty hard is just a wonderful otk spanking pic, red bottom and your lap in view.
ReplyDeleteThe entire set is amazing.
Thank you
Always
Ron
Dear Ron:
DeleteI think you are in the majority: you guys (Evan included) love the pictures of guys with erections getting spanked. I guess you identify with it! That makes sense to me.
Thanks, as always, for answering so promptly Ron!
Deirdre
Ma'am,
DeleteHaving been there so many times, that is perhaps the pinacle of the erotic moment of a spanking. Looking down at a loving and beautiful lap, knowing you are about to present yourself on that lap, looking at the paddle or your hands, looking into the eyes and being told, got over my lap. That may be the most erotic moment of an OTK spanking. I love that moment and picture shows us that moment.
As well I love pics of a red bottom over your beautiful lap!
My pleasure!
Always
Ron
Love.....it's too beautiful not to touch.
ReplyDeleteDavid gets a rush of pleasure to contrast with the pain he knows is coming.
leigh
Dear Leigh:
DeleteI am with you! Not enough women on this forum. But my favorites are the two where I am grabbing Evan's penis, and the third where it's sticking straight at my face. What a lovely penis! I just want to hold it, and play with it, and suck on it. (Sorry, boys, I am a girl, and I like a good penis!) I tend not to suck on it much any more, just because it's too submissive of me to do so. But I tend to want to sometimes!
Thanks for commenting,
Deirdre
Really hard leg blistering would be nice!
ReplyDeleteDear Jack:
DeleteI was asking about which of these photos, but I see what you would like.
Hmm... I have done that a few times before, when Evan was tied to the bench. I don't see any reason why we can't do it again, and film it.
I will see what I can do about your request,
Deirdre
Hard to decide on a favorite as they are all good. But for me the anticipation of what's to come is the best part so I would go with the first seven pictures. And of those the last one "Time to get started,over you go, stick that thing between my legs sent me over the top. Nothing like the fantasy of a beatiful woman about to spank you. Standing there feeling like a child while she prepares you by pulling down your underwear with paddle in full view. And while I fantasize about the spanking the reality when it starts is hard to take. But I willingly submit anyway cause I know I deserve it.
ReplyDeleteBob S.
Dear Bob:
DeleteAh yes, just like Evan and Ron: a fan of the erection while over the knee.
Good for you for taking your spanking: I am also certain that you deserve it.
Deirdre
Oh my, I like all of them Deirdre, but especially the last six where I can tell you are starting to really deliver the punishment that I am sure Evan deserves. You just look so sexy completely dominating him and even though he is kicking and squirming you just keep laying it on until you are satisfied that he has been properly punished. Then when he stands up you know from his shrunken penis that the spanking has been effective, and that his thoughts have gone from his erection to his sore well spanked bottom. In that last picture he looks like a well punished man, and you look like his sexy satisfied disciplinarian.
ReplyDeleteHi Mr. otk:
DeleteYes, I have no problem spanking hard, even when Evan makes a fuss. If he doesn't make a fuss, then I am not doing a good job! In fact, sometimes he overreacts a bit (maybe because of the memories of previous hard spankings), and I call him on it: he makes too much of a fuss for not very hard spanking, and that is definitely a reason to spank a lot harder and longer.
Yes, I really do enjoy spanking him hard, so that he is genuinely begging me to stop. I don't know why it excites me, but it does. We are a good match!
Deirdre
of course my favorite picture is when you are guiding i=him over your lap the actual contact of his nakedness to the spanking lap and then the spanking starts. that's my favorite although all of the pictures are really hot.
ReplyDeleteDear Tommy:
DeleteI should have known which one you would like: You are always drawing boys and men with big erections before, during and after getting spanked! Evan loves those pictures of yours.
The after-spanking erection is something I have yet to see in real life. In my book, if you have an erection, and you are getting spanked, then you aren't getting spanked hard enough. I guess there may be exceptions, but I haven't seen one in real life yet. Evan is sure not an exception to this rule!
Thanks for the comment, as always, Tommy.
Deirdre
Dear Deirdre,
ReplyDeleteTo address your questions both in this post and the one before...
I'm sure that Evan is a great partner and has a very nice penis and all that, but it's YOU that makes this blog so "click worthy". Your figure is fantastic and your hair is lovely, and while you take care to conceal your face, there can be no doubt that you have a beautiful countenance.
But aside from your appearance, it's your attitude that carries the day. When you commented recently that you didn't care about Evan's wailing, as it was "music to your ears"... that was music to MY ears!
It's amazing how you've amassed so many hits in the months your blog has been active, but do you want to know how to rack up another million in half the time? Get yourself a sexy leather outfit, strap Evan down to the bench, and film it with the camera facing YOU. You just might crash the server.
Best,
Jake
Dear Jake:
DeleteThanks for the insight. Yes, I see that my interests and some of my readers' interests may diverge a bit here. I actually like to dress up and be sexy, and I would be happy to spank while dressed up, but it doesn't occur naturally a lot for us. But I may do some more dress up for the camera / blog sometime soon.
Thanks for the nice comments about my appearance: I appreciated the kind words very much. (What girl wouldn't?)
Deirdre
dear Deirdre
ReplyDeletei'm interesting read about evan's mother spanking oo evan bottom.
it will be so exciting
please write story about it
thank you
Dear Anon:
DeleteI will ask Evan to write something about that sometime. Thanks for your interest in the blog,
Deirdre
Dear Ms.Deirdre,
ReplyDeleteObedient Hubby here. My favorite pic is "time to get started." Several reasons: 1) Evan is willingly (he is aroused, to be sure, but willing) to go over your lap, knowing as he does from experience that you spank hard, it will hurt, and the sexual arousal will quickly fade (that's my hero!); 2) Your paddle is so lady-like, and barely in view, and you are so petite compared to the big and handsome man you are getting ready to blister; and 3)As always, you are dressed so cute in "hang around the house" attire, nothing dominatrix-like about your appearance, and the captions suggest exactly what you would typically say: no ranting, just strict love. Wow! The other comment I have, not directly responsive, is that you have really moved so rapidly in your spanking regime in recent weeks, and I wonder if Evan has started to experience a continually tender bottom. He is bound to have some residual redness or bruising going into some of his spankings these days, right? And, has he ever needed a band aid afterwards? Keep up the good work, both on his rear and in your blogging! Your readers come back all day long now, at least I do.
O.H.
Dear OH:
DeleteYou are similar to many other men, including Evan, in liking the otk erection photo.
It's so nice to hear that Evan is your hero: I think that Evan is actually pretty tough! He is not a masochist at all: he hates the pain of a hard spanking. But he puts up with it for me and because he knows that he will be excited by it again, pretty much as soon as it's over. And he knows that I like it when he takes it well, even though I push him hard (so that I get a good reaction out of him).
(But even so, I think "hero" is a pretty strong word for his behavior here.)
No, there is no residual redness that I have noticed. Evan is a very well-spanked man, you know. He has been spanked regularly for years and years now. So it takes a lot at this point even to bruise him. I have to work hard each time to get a new bruise out of him. (Except if I go for his thighs: I haven't bruised them too often, so they are still easy to bruise if I want to.)
Regarding bandaids, I haven't caused much blood over the years. Pursey doesn't cause that kind of injury. Sometimes when I cane or strap him hard (when he is strapped on the bench), I will break the skin in a few places, but this doesn't happen too often. We don't have any of those on film, I don't think. (Evan can correct me on that.)
Anyway, I tend to prefer *not* to break the skin if possible. That used to be a sort of a limit for me (no broken skin) but later, I decided it was arbitrary, so I don't mind if I do it every now and then. Mostly I use my purse paddle, for which this issue doesn't arise.
Thanks for the interest, OH!
Deirdre
I know I'll probably be paddled, but my all time favorite, no question about it is any of the blue bikini pictures...
ReplyDeletejohn
Dear John:
DeleteThanks for the interest in my bikini pictures. Maybe I will spank Evan sometime while I am wearing my bikini. I bet the boys would like that. In fact, I bet Evan would like that!
Who will paddle you for liking my bikini pictures? Whoever it is, I hope that they do a good job on you, so that you have red, bruised bottom, and it's hard to sit for a couple of days.
Hugs,
Deirdre
Who will paddle me?
DeleteYou mean it won't be you and Julie?!?!
I'll have to make that one come true later in the theatre of my mind...
Also, I changed my mind, it's any picture that shows your pretty hair.
=D
Each take a cheek??
DeleteFriendly from your point of view maybe!!
OK, that did it, I'm going to go 'lay down' for a little bit...Julie in her fishnets & business suit and Deirdre in her blue bikini...a little contest...
john
I like the image "a two hander," clearly this is the esteemed Mrs. Deirdre taking control of the situation.
ReplyDeletejm
Hi. I like the one where you're holding him with both hands. In that one it looks like you are really determined to make sure he has an erection. And since we know, and he knows, that you're doing so simply for the pleasure of spanking it out of him again, it makes it all deliciously cruel - in a fun way. There is something very erotic about a woman forbidding a man to have an erection, yet making him have one. :)
ReplyDeleteDear Scally:
DeleteYes, I like that one too.
But I am not always as devious as you make me out to be: many times, I grab Evan's penis just because I love to grab his penis. It's a beautiful thing to touch and feel. I love the effect I have on it: I can make it swell very large.
It just so happens that having an erection isn't compatible with getting a spanking. So he loses it fairly quickly, and then his penis looks so small and cute again.
But I guess you are right: I do sometimes make Evan's penis large just so that I can shrink it down with a spanking. So yes, sometimes I am a bit devious that way.
(By the way, I never forbid Evan to have an erection. He has told me that he is turned on by the idea of being punished for having one (another common theme in your guys' heads) but I haven't found a way to make that make any sense in our relationship. I don't know why I would ever be unhappy that he has an erection: I love to see his erection... But maybe someday I will figure out a way to have it make sense for me to truly spank him for having an erection.)
Thanks for the comment!
Deirdre
Dear Deirdre,
DeleteObedient Hubby here. Here is my take: The wife being outraged that her husband gets erect at the prospect of a spanking is a bit of role play, and a delicious one at that. Most men have no control to avoid or deflate an erection once they are aroused. So, it is inherently a role play drama or farce to punish him for it, even if done with a straight face. It is like the verbal repartee where the wife feigns regret that she has to give a huge spanking in a game of dice or cards because of the “luck of the draw.”
To a certain extent, almost all of us engage in role play, even when real spankings are involved, and even when the wife is genuinely fully in charge. Some couples have certain rituals which are always part of the spanking, just as many couples who are not into spanking have their own sexual rituals or habits, both for communicating and for the action itself. A happy sex life in a committed relationship usually involves negotiation and compromise. To the extent that there is a domination – submission narrative, there may be less negotiation and/or the submissive may surrender most of his ability to negotiate. Nevertheless, there is ultimately the consent to submit (except in illegal, actual slavery, or abusive relationships). So, even where the submissive has no say in how frequently or hard he is spanked, he has still consented to be the submissive, and that is as it should be.
So, one wife might enjoy the game of feigning outrage and punishing for the erection, and do it in part out of ritual and/or to arouse the husband further by making him feel shame, which is wonderful if that’s what she likes. Another might just comment, , “Okay, Buster, I am going to get rid of that stiffie here and now.” A third might proudly own her own arousal by saying, “Ooo, I see somebody is very excited. I am turned on, too, and am really going to enjoy paddling your backside long and hard. But after the spanking I am going to have a number of orgasms and what you are going to have is trouble sitting down. So, I hope you are enjoying that erection as much as I am going to enjoy blistering your rear. Now, over!”
The possibilities are endless, aren’t they?
All the best,
O.H.
Dear OH:
DeleteYes, I see what you are saying. I may play like that eventually: feigning that I don't want his erection. You never know. I think it would be exciting for him, so I may do that sometime.
Thanks as always for your thoughtful comments!
Deirdre
Oh, this topic is one of my favourites! :-)
DeleteI think feigning the situation that you don't like his erection could be one possible scenario, but there are more.
In my point of view, the background psychology of this could be the fact that most of the time men simply don't have the control over their erections. And because of femdom is about control exchange, it's easy to involve this kind of humiliation play into the erotic game.
It's embarrassing for a man that he can't control his erection because it implies a few unwelcome effect (beside pleasure of course). For example, when a man gets aroused, he can't really pay attention to other important things - it's the same for women I think, but men can't really turn off their erection; sometimes the only solution can be jerking it off. It's not a problem when you are with your partner, but otherwise it can be. :-)
Sometimes I'm in a situation when a smart & sexy woman talks to me, and I found myself staring her tits or her legs or her pretty face, and I can't really pay attention to her so I lose the thread shortly. Most of the times I can, but when I unawarely start thinking about her body, I will surely get lost.
It's embarrassing, especially at work, when female colleagues can convince me about things which I don't agree with. And after the meeting, I feel like I was almost hypnotised! :o)
I think it's a good game when you are with your partner, try some "erotic teasing quiz". It's funny. ;-)
You could collect or invent some mathematical problems or simple tasks for Evan: exercises which are not too hard and easily solvable, if someone would have enough time and possibility to concentrate on the questions. But while he is trying to head solve the problems, you could tease them a bit - it's likely that he will make a mistake somewhere. And for every mistake you could punish him with the paddle.
So in this case you don't punish him because he has an erection, instead of punish him because he didn't know the answers.
It's a challenging game because if he don't want to get punished (maybe Evan wants, so perhaps it won't work), he must fight against his sexual arousement and his erection.
I think this fight would be impossible if you lock him into chastity maybe a week before the game.
And it's a funny game because it shows how easily men loose their mind if they are under constant sexual stimulation.
How clever of you, cp. I hope that your partner has played these kinds of games with you. I may do so with Evan eventually, but right now, I like punishing him for real things: things that I genuinely want him to change. It's easy to spank him hard for these things, and it makes me feel better to do so. And he eventually feels better too, though not when he is being spanked.
DeleteBut I do like your ideas. There are an infinite number of ways to get and give a spanking.
Deirdre
Hi!
ReplyDeleteI'm a returning guest of your blog. It's good to see that you are here again! This blog is great, you make a great couple! I like all of the pictures, but my all-time favourites is where you stand in front of the camera holding a paddle ;-)
Oh, and I like the captions very much too!
Dear cp:
DeleteThanks for the comment! You are in luck: Evan took some pictures of me with my paddle. They are going up soon!
Deirdre
Wonderful! What could I say?
DeleteUpload them all! :-)
cp
Deirdre, I think all the pictures are great. They make everyone in one way or another. Evan is the only one to be happy with this set. I would like to say that having an erection during a spanking is erotic. I am never spanked with erection my wife thinks that if I have an erection during a spanking is a reward and not thinking about why I am getting a spanking. Therefore that never happens in my home. Only thing that proceeds her spankings are tears. I hope you scold Evan that makes a spanking genuine.
ReplyDeletesuffie
Dear suffie:
DeleteWell you probably deserve those spankings, so I won't feel sorry for you.
But I don't think Evan can help his erections: If I don't let hi ejaculate for a while, he just has an erection when it's time to get spanked. I don't hold this against him: it makes me happy! (But as OH observed, maybe it would be fun to punish him for having an erection.)
Thanks for commenting, and good luck behaving so you don't get spanked so much.
Deirdre
Wow, lots of very interesting comments!
ReplyDeleteAs for me, I am very partial to the pix of Evan over your lap while you are holding that paddle high over your head about ready to strike with real stinger.
Ken
Dear Ken:
DeleteGood to hear from you!
Yes, I do like to give Evan a lot of stingers during the course of the spanking. Then he yelps a lot, which makes me know I am doing a good job!
Deirdre
I love them all, of course, especially with your teasing comments!
ReplyDeleteI like the first one for its suspense.
If I were Evan, I'd be pleading:
"OK, I'll never do it again, never, never, never, I promise!"
(Well, at least not until the next time . . . )
;-),
ricky
Dear Ricky:
DeleteEvan does say stuff like that during a spanking, if I am asking him for a response. It makes me laugh! I remember once I was spanking him before he went on a trip, and I told him not to masturbate on the trip. He told me that he would never masturbate again! I laughed at him: how ridiculous! I spanked him extra long and hard for that lie! Maybe that's what he really wanted, but it sure didn't seem like it at the time.
Thanks for the comment,
Deirdre
That's so sweet and tender.
Delete(giggle!)
ricky
Deirdre,
ReplyDeleteI can't really say which is my favorite picture because a crucial piece of information is missing for each one, and that is the expression on your face. The photo in which you look like you are thoroughly enjoying yourself would be my favorite. Thanks for this wonderful post.
Walter
Dear Walter:
DeleteI am smiling in most of the actual spanking pictures. It's kind of funny to see: I obviously get a real kick out of spanking Evan. Evan pointed my smile out in the very first videos we shot many years ago, and I think I have been smiling in every video since. (When I am touching Evan's penis, I just look very interested, but I am not smiling.)
Thanks for the comment,
Deirdre
Dear Deirdre,
DeleteAnd thanks for the reply. You said when you posted the pictures that you wanted to know what it is that makes us boys tick. For me it's knowing that the woman who is spanking me is enjoying herself. How arousing it would be for me to stand with my pants down next to the woman I love who is seated with a paddle in her hand looking up at me and smiling.
Walter
Thanks Sara! Yes, those are some of my favorites too. Except that he really does hurt my legs when he does that! I have to keep working on keeping him down, by spanking his thighs when he squirms like that.
ReplyDeleteDeirdre
You'll really have to break him of that, Ma'am! :)
ReplyDeleteI'll vote for "pretty hard now"...bottom up and red, legs kicking, paddle a blur on the way down....classic
ReplyDeleteR
That's a good choice. And well argued too!
DeleteThanks, R.
Deirdre
I especially loved Wow that had an even stronger effect. Such a beautiful, and powerful phallus! Mine is always shrivelled, and I am in tears at this point BEFORE the spanking even begins. Im literally blubbering following it. My wife prefers things this way so I always remember that she is the one in charge.
ReplyDeleteHi Deirdre, I love your series of spanking pictures, especially the preparation of Evan and his subsequent excitement. That would definitely be me, especially if my erect penis was hand smacked as part of the punishment. Strangely it makes me even harder!
ReplyDeleteBobby.