I started my blog around 2 years ago, and I have been sporadically posting over that period: basically 3 periods of about a month or more each over the course of 2 years.
According to "statcounter" (a widget on my blog) I have now had over 1 million page views since the blog started (and approaching 500,000 unique visits). Thanks for all your interest! The fact that all you read and comment keeps me and Evan posting.
If you have a minute (and you must, because I can't imagine that this is work time for you, is it?) please write a comment about why it is that you have come to my blog. Why so many people, from all over?
Evan thinks that there is still a dearth of real strict wives out there, who give their husbands real, hard spankings. Or is it the pictures that bring you here? I am told that men are visual: is that it? If so, do you want some more pictures, perhaps of my naked or semi-clothed body? (Not that I am going to show you, but I like to torment you all a bit, if I can.)
Here's an awesome picture of Evan getting over my knee for a spanking, erection and all. I know you boys love these kinds of pictures, because these ones always get downloaded more than others around them!
Hugs to all,
Deirdre
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| He's erect now, but I will change that very soon. |
Speaking for myself, i just found Your blog recently, but love both the words and the pictures. Keep them both up!
ReplyDeleteAnd p.s. more pictures of You would of course be amazing...i'll be holding my breath, even if it seems unlikely. :-)
Dear Mr. Adoring:
DeleteThank you for the comment. I am happy that you like all the content.
It is possible that I will provide more pictures of myself sometime soon: Evan likes those pictures too.
Deirdre
I'm here because you're hot, and you spank. And yes, it's hard to find women who will give a real spanking. Most of them will wimp out just when things are warming up.
ReplyDeleteGlad you two are still around and sharing your stories.
Dear Anon 1:
DeleteThank you for the compliment, and thanks for reading.
That's a very interesting observation that some / many women will wimp out when the spanking is just getting going. That was Evan's feeling too. I wonder if that will be different for the younger set (in which I include myself): I have no problem spanking hard, but I don't know other women socially who do this! I wouldn't mind having everyone know, but Evan is too embarrassed by it yet.
Deirdre
Congrats on the 1m hits. You should start doing adverts at that sort of visitor level and get an income stream. Not surprising that your blog is popular as it comes across as honest to goodness marital discipline and control which is what a lot of guys desire. Keep it up.
ReplyDeleteDear Michael M:
DeleteYes, I have thought about advertizing, but I haven't read enough about it yet. Maybe some day, as long as it doesn't get in the way of the blog.
Thanks for reading and for the nice comment,
Deirdre
One million, eh?
ReplyDeleteAnd here, I thought I was the only one!
No kidding, that's great, and well done!
That's what's wonderful about blogs: the opportunity to communicate, one on one, even just for an instant, with another.
Congratulations, and thank you for sharing.
ricky
Dear Ricky:
DeleteNo, you're not the only one, unless you are reloading pages on the order of 2500 per day. (That would be a dull job.)
Yes, it's good to communicate with others through this blog, even in the weird way of the internet. And I am starting to like writing more now, with the practice provide by this blog.
Thanks for reading and commenting,
Deirdre
I love your website because you seem real, and you clearly spank your man hard, which is what I like to read about and see (and what I would like to experience in a similar relationship some day).
ReplyDeleteI am also glad to read about the recent change in your relationship, where you are in real control.
And it doesn't hurt that your body is gorgeous: I bet your face is beautiful too.
Keep spanking Evan! We love to read about it and see it.
Anon
(Regarding the picture here, Evan's penis looks very large. Does he ever make love to you in your behind?)
Congrats on the 1 million hits. Just found your page not to long ago off a link from another page. But the wife in charge is what I like and am fortunate enough(I Think) to get to experience it only recently. Keep up the great work.
DeleteDear Anon 2:
DeleteYes, I am real: thanks for noticing! And yes, Evan gets spanked hard, and now I am in real command in our marriage. All is right in the world.
Thank you for the compliment with respect to my looks. I am happy that you and others (Evan especially) find me attractive. It's nice to be desirable.
Regarding Evan's penis, yes, it's big. It feels great inside me. But it's much too big for my bottom: he will never put that thing in my bottom. I am the only one who butt-fucks in this family: I peg him with my feeldoe dildo.
Deirdre
Dear Bob:
DeleteThanks for the comment, and thanks for reading. Good luck in your new female-led relationship!
Deirdre
I agree, men are more visual than women, at least that is my experience. For me it is exciting to see a dominant women put a guy over her knee for a good sound bare bottom spanking, but lets face the woman is what I am looking at and her dominant disciplinary control over the guy, for me that is the turn on.
ReplyDeleteCongrats on the 1 million hits, you have posted some very interesting thoughts and pictures, keep up the good work.
HUGS,
Dave
Dear Dave:
DeleteThanks, I am glad you like the pictures as well as the writing.
Deirdre
Great blog!
ReplyDeleteIs there any chance you can show us more of your body? What you show us is beautiful, ma'am. We would love to see more, whatever you are willing to show us, your adoring public.
William
Dear William:
DeleteThank you for the compliment. Since you are so polite, I will see what I can do.
Deirdre
Congratulations on the million pageviews.
ReplyDeleteI, for one, read your blog to read about a lovely female-led relationship. I am glad that you enjoy spanking your husband: he is a very lucky man indeed.
I wonder if, in honour of the one million pageviews, you would consider giving your lucky husband an especially hard spanking, embarrassing him in some new way if possible? (And of course telling us and / or showing us!)
I don't have anything in mind in particular: Perhaps a hard spanking in partial public somewhere? Not real public, just somewhere where some people might see you, outside. Like at a park or something? That's just off the top of my head.
I don't mean to be demanding: this is just in case you do requests. Keep up the good work!
on to 2 million pageviews soon, I would judge.
Mark
Dear Mark:
DeleteThanks for the comment. Yes, Evan is a lucky man: we can all agree on that!
Regarding your request, I will think about it: I do like to push Evan's limits, but I don't know when I will have a chance to do so in the near future. We will see. Some day soon I may write a post looking for "audience participation": suggestions on things to do that I would enjoy, that might push Evan's limits a bit. (No cuckolding please: that's never happening here.)
Thanks for your support,
Deirdre
Please please could you post some close up pics of persy???? We would love to know the exact brand so my wife could use it on me!! Thank you so much, I'm sure we are not the only ones wondering!!
ReplyDeleteDear Clint:
DeletePursey (or persy if you like) was featured in a blog post from 2010, before she was named "pursey":
http://spankingmyhusband.blogspot.fr/2010/12/going-through-airport-security-with-my.html
Evan got pursey for me a few years ago. He thinks that this is what he ordered from http://www.spanking-paddles.com/ (one of the links at the side of the blog):
http://www.thewilbournegroup.com/Specialties/HickoryHairbrush.htm
So you can get a sister to pursey there. Have fun with her! Your wife will like her more than you will, I am sure.
Deirdre
Alan
ReplyDeleteHi Deidre
I may be in the minority but I don’t read your blog for the pictures, sensual though they are. Instead I love the intelligent sensitive and imaginative way you explore our abiding kink. I disagree some with Evan that there are not many spanking wives. I think there are quite a few and it’s growing especially among younger well educated couples. But what makes your blog and its discussions almost unique is the attention to the mental and psychological side of spanking together with your interest in stimulating discussion. (And I include in tat the many interesting comments made by your readers)
I have known quite a few women who spanked and have been involved in two serious disciplinary relationships and in none of these was there quite the level of communication you create. Most women (and this is an irony given the stereotype about communication) have been less interested in talking about spanking than doing it. Maybe that’s because of the taboo that still surrounds adult spanking, but whatever its cause the number of hits you have generated reveals a large demand for what you are doing.
Alan
Dear Alan:
DeleteThank you for the strong vote of confidence. Yes, I like to have a discussion, not just have a one-way distribution of information. It's good to get many similar boys' views on why they are so in need of a dominant woman. Then I can understand my boy a bit better, and I can give him what he needs more easily.
Personally, I don't know why anyone wouldn't spank the one they love, if the one they love wants and needs it. I understand that it's not typical, but there doesn't seem to be any downside to giving your man what he needs: a very sore bottom. (That last sentence would sound pretty silly out of context!)
Thank you for the compliment on my writing and on my attempt to understand Evan: I appreciate all your positive support.
Deirdre
Dear Deirdre:
ReplyDeleteI strongly agree with the last commenter (Alan) who says that what's greatest about your blog is the writing and discussion. I like the pictures, but they are not what interests me in your blog. Like Alan, I am drawn to the depth of your need to understand your husband's submissive interests, and to find and create your own dominating interests.
I also agree with Alan that it is possible to find women who will willingly spank a male, but it's hard to find one who wants to understand it as much as you want to. That's what makes you so interesting to read.
For me the pictures give me evidence that you are doing what you say you are doing (which is nice) but I think we all already believe you anyway. You don't need any visual content for me to want to read your blog. Please keep up the great work.
Sean
Dear Sean:
DeleteThanks for your support too. I am glad that there are so many people that appreciate my blog.
Deirdre
(and yes, Evan and I are real!)
I am so happy that you are posting again. I million hits means that I am not alone. Good job!
ReplyDeleteAs far as what makes your blog so popular, that's easy. You so clearly enjoy dominating your husband. That is very appealing to many men. You are creative, you enjoy seeing Evan suffer for you, and you understand that he needs it. Basically, you GET IT.
And of course we would love to see more of your body! So spank me for wanting to see more of you.
Dear Redtail:
DeleteThanks for the vote of confidence! Yes, I think I get it now.
You boys are a bit crazy, but I get you. It's been really fun to take it to Evan, especially in the last few weeks.
Deirdre
Deirdre
ReplyDeleteWonderful you have the million hits, well done ma'am.
I come here because I find you and your husband to be an inspiration for men who need and want to be spanked over the knee. You two have such a wonderful relationship and understanding of each others needs and desires. Also, you are thoughtful, kind and so intelligent; I love reading your posts. The pictures, well sure nice touch as the one you just showed us of your loving husband obviously aroused by you getting over your beautiful lap.
You are just wonderful ma'am, kind but strict. I will admit I am jealous of our husband but enjoy reading your blogs.
Thank you
Always
Ron
Thanks, Ron! That's my goal: to provide information and to show people what we can do, in the hopes that others could do some similar fun and satisfying things.
DeleteAll the best to you,
Deirdre
Ma'am
DeleteYou accomplish your goal for me no doubt and remain a true source of inspiration but yes erotic as well, I so enjoy reading your lines and understanding the love you two have and the spankings, well those are heaven for us. Keep your relationship going, just amazing as are you.
Always
Ron
Ms. Deirdre,
ReplyDeleteI started reading your blog because I like reading about women who spank men, particularly with a domestic disciplinary approach. I imagine that I'm not-so-subconsciously identifying with the men being spanked.
Your blog is one of my favorites because you write about how you're doing this out of love for Evan, and that you're enjoying it for yourself as well. You write with clarity and insight, and it seems pretty clear that both you and Evan are enjoying a positive relationship. This gives me (and probably many others of your mega-readership) hope.
Congratulations on the million page views.
Have fun!
Michael_Michael
Dear MM:
DeleteThanks for the nice comment. Yes, we are trying to give others some hope.
Best to you,
Deirdre
The power of your blog is all about reality: your devotion to Evan and his to you, the closeness of your relationship, your deep desire to meets the needs of one another, descriptions of spanking and related activity that under the best circumstances are meant only for two loving adults, the discrete photos of you so that we visual folks (guys) can see that you are a real person, and the utter lack of commercialization.
ReplyDeleteYou are not trying to gain fame nor are you trying to impress people--just simply describe this rare and creative aspect of your lives for the benefit of human kind. It is a generous, personalized gift, presented out of the simple, pure motive of helping others.
jm
Dear jm:
DeleteThank you very much: yes, that's what we are shooting for. I am glad that there seem to be so many interested people. We want them all to find the fun and love that we have found.
Deirdre
I come here because I like to see, and read about, boys getting their bare bums beat by their loving wives!
ReplyDeleteAnd congrats on hitting 1M! That's a lot of hits. I did the math. In spanking terms, that's the equivalent of a spanking each and every day for Evan for 10 years. Poor sore-bottomed Evan!
Yes, that's why I like your blog too: I love to hear about the stuff you do to david!
DeleteNever feel sorry for sore-bottomed Evan: that's what he needs to feel safe!
Deirdre
little suggestion if I can
ReplyDeletenext time you should wear a dress nylon and hight heels and do the same set of pics with your husband