On google's blogger, I can see how people have searched in order to find my blog. Below, I list a few of search strings that people have used to find my blog in recent days. The ones that I like best are the ones that appear to be a woman searching
for information about how to spank her husband. If you are a woman
looking for information on how to spank your husband (possibly because
he wants this) I hope you find me, and I hope that what you find here is
helpful to you.
Most importantly, try not to judge your husband harshly for having this desire. It's just how he is wired: he doesn't want to be this way any more than anyone who is gay or straight wants to be gay or straight: they just are that way. Unlike being straight / gay, it is possible that the need to be spanked is partially determined by his upbringing: maybe he was spanked as a child, and getting spanked was a manifestation of closeness and/or sexuality that grew in him, through no fault of his own. He is this way, and he will probably always be this way, because things that happen to us in childhood are difficult to change. So the more understanding of his need you can be, the better.
If he's like Evan, then you don't need to worry about being gentle with him. A man's bottom is a pretty harmless place to strike him. If your man is fit and in good health, he can take a good, hard spanking with the back of a hairbrush on his bare bottom. I recommend using a simple wooden hairbrush or wooden bath brush. A thick one is better than a thin one: a thin one may break surprisingly easily. Start slowly: maybe he won't like it as much as he thinks he will. Start with maybe 10-20 smacks on his bare bottom while he is over your knee. You may be nervous when spanking him, but he will probably be just as nervous getting spanked by you. Try to make him feel comfortable, by letting him know that it's ok for him to have these feelings, and that you aren't bothered or threatened by his needs (assuming that this is true). It may be difficult for you to spank hard to start: don't worry about this. Spank as hard or lightly as you are comfortable with, and talk about it after with your man. He may try to tell you how to do it better (that's called "topping from the bottom"): try not to let this bother you. He may have some fantasy that he is trying to get you to act out for him. Tell him that you understand that he has all these fantasies inside him, but if he wants it to be good with *you*, then he will have to let you lead your way, whatever that may be. Keep in mind that things will grow and change rapidly over the first few times that you spank him. Don't try to get it "perfect" the first time. It will grow and be better as long as you communicate well with each other, and as long as you don't try to make each other into something that you're not. Try to reassure him that you will do your best, but tell him that you will do what's comfortable for you too.
Mostly, I recommend sympathizing with your man: he is opening up to you about his feelings. Try not to make him feel bad for having them.
Good luck to all of you,
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