Tuesday, January 5, 2010

getting started

Hi there.

This is my first blog. My name is Deirdre. I am 31 years old. My husband's name is Evan. He is 42. We have been happily married for a few years now, in the Boston (USA) area under a domestic discipline lifestyle. I spank Evan when I feel like it. This is sometimes when he does something that displeases me in some way, but most of the time now it's just because I like to spank him, and exert some control over him. We don't do this all the time. Maybe once every month or couple of weeks. I think I will start doing it more now that I am writing about it.

I will tell you our story soon. Drop me a line if you are reading this. I am curious if anyone could find this blog, because I haven't mentioned it to anyone but Evan yet. Depending on the level of interest, I will post more pictures and lots more description of our life together.


  1. hi Diedre- Love your blog keep posting
    Submissive husband

  2. So pleased that you have entered cyber-space and are writing about your experiences with this incredibly important topic. So many relative newbies, like me, are still collecting information [I am the male in an F/M setting] and still searching every day and still learning from those who have journeyed this path before.

    I looking forward to reading your story.

    Blessings on you and yours.

  3. Good evening Ma'am;

    I'm Chuck. I'll be 62 April 11th and I was married to a beautiful woman like you for 10yrs. until her death in '99.
    I have to admit that we switched about 10% of the time and she liked to be playfully spanked once in a while. My spankings, however, were mostly for punishment and discipline and VERY hard with a paddle or hairbrush. All spankings were otk.
    After she died, I lived here in Pa. for about 3yrs. but I missed her so much I couldn't stay here and moved to Gloucester, Ma. and loved it. I drove a taxi there and made so many friends and met quite a few spankos.
    As I said, I'll be 62 and I'm taking the early retirement and as I'm retired military, I'll be doing quite well financially.
    I'd like to tell you more about the relationship I had with my beautiful, caring wife if you'd be interested.

    This blog you've started looks like it would really be fun to post in and I'd like to become one of your fans. After all this time, I'd like to share the love that we had for each other and the spanking bond that we had. Believe me, that type of bond between a man and a woman is so special, it's almost indescribable.

    If we can't connect here, I'm Chuck48 at FetLife.

    Hope to hear from you.


  4. Hi Diedre,

    I very much like the blog you are starting here. I am a switch, and love spanking either way, but I think I am more into F/M spanking. My Lady is much like you she spanks hard, and even though it hurts a lot I love it, and so does She. She is like you, she spanks me for discipline, but like you she spanks me more often just because She wants to ;(

    I am looking forward to your future posts, because I love to read about the feelings of the female spanker, it is especially nice when She loves it as much as I do ;)


  5. PS Diedre,

    I am also looking forward to more pictures, those you have already posted are great!


  6. Thanks to all of you for the great comments.

    Anonymous 1 & 2: thank you very much for the support.

    Anonymous 3 (Chuck): Thanks for joining. I am sorry to hear about your loss. I hope that you have found or can find a new partner for you in the coming years.

    Hi Dave: I am happy to meet you. I am glad you like the pictures. I have lots more.

  7. Hi Deirdre,
    I like the fact that you spank Evan for discipline, but most of all I like the fact that you spank him, as you say"Just because I like to spank him". I think that is a good thing, because you can exert control over him while enjoying the experience. And to him it is a good reminder that you are in control and are the one who administers the discipline in the family. I am a big fan of women who spank their husbands for discipline and also just because you like to spank him :-) Keep up the good work, I am looking forward to new posts and pictures.

  8. Would prefer to see pictures without the paddles blocking the head/face, even if a turned away view.

  9. Dear Anonymous:

    I found your request quite demanding and entitled the way it was worded. You aren't paying for anything here. If you want a particular kind of content, then go to a paid website and get what you want.

    Evan and I didn't make these videos for your entertainment: we made them for us. So naturally, we like to have our faces in them. But we aren't planning to show you our faces in this forum. We would like to protect our anonymity.

  10. Hi Miss Deidre,thanks for a great blog.Congrats to You and hubby for taking the right step.Looking forward to more and will visit again

  11. Just found your blog and am enjoying what I've seen. Please keep it up!

  12. Spanked husband here, and love your blog, thanks for sharing!

  13. Great blog. Anxious to see the spanking bench!

  14. Hi Deirdre: Found your blog through a link on another site, and I will enjoy reading what you are writing. I hope these are not your real names, as privacy concerns are important. One word of advice, post as you see fit, not what any anonymous readers ask you to do. Great photos also. May I use a couple when I post a link to your blog from mine.

  15. your blog is wonderful. I'm sad I just found it and it seems dormant. I hope you are still spanking away? If you'd ever like to do an interview for someonesgonnagetit.wordpress.com let me know. Or just say hi.