I gather that a big fantasy of people who want to be spanked is to be spanked to tears. My experience with spanking my husband Evan is that he hardly ever cries, except on rare occasions when he is being spanked for something that displeases me, and he is sad about how his behavior has hurt me or someone else in some way. Although he will yell out (a lot) from the pain of being spanked - especially over the bench - he won't cry from the pain.
I will post other pictures of him over the bench sometime soon. And I will write about some other issues that seem to keep coming up in the comments section. For now, here's another photo of me with a paddle.