Saturday, May 15, 2010

spanking my husband to tears

Hi all:

I gather that a big fantasy of people who want to be spanked is to be spanked to tears. My experience with spanking my husband Evan is that he hardly ever cries, except on rare occasions when he is being spanked for something that displeases me, and he is sad about how his behavior has hurt me or someone else in some way. Although he will yell out (a lot) from the pain of being spanked - especially over the bench - he won't cry from the pain.

I will post other pictures of him over the bench sometime soon. And I will write about some other issues that seem to keep coming up in the comments section. For now, here's another photo of me with a paddle.

Deirdre

20 comments:

  1. Wow, absolutely stunning photo. There is something powerful about being spanked by a woman with a nicely rounded Derriere and this picture of you with your paddle showcases everything powerful about you. Evan is certainly a lucky man.

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  2. beautifull picture and you have a very lovely bottom your self . Being a switch , i would have to admit desiring to spank your beautifull bottom . evan is quite the lucky man

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  3. The idea of receiving a spanking with a paddle like that is scary, yet hard to resist if that's who's holding the dreaded implement.

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  4. Dear D.
    You are great beautiful and sexy woman. I have two questions:
    1- Are you birched your husband?
    2- Are you blood his bottom?
    Kiss you
    Parivash

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  5. Deirdre.

    I must say I have been spanked to tears a few times but mostly my lap believes out of relief and just stress being let go not so much the spanking. I once cried from the cane I got because I was rude to one of my laps and like Evan I cried more because of letting her down, not the cane. Although I despise the cane! It is a fantasy to see if I could cry from just a hand spanking sort of back to my youth but I guess that is a mind set, not sure.

    You are a beautiful lady by the way. The paddle looks very, well, nice?? Thanks for sharing.

    Be well

    Ron

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  6. Sorry challenged sometimes, last Anonymous was Ron.

    Thanks

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  7. Hi, one last comment and I may be in the minority here but while most like to comment on your butt, well they should, can we see some more pics of you in the incredible domestic dresses and outfits? I love your profile pic and the one of you in pink in an earlier blog is incredible, domestic, pretty but then the paddle or brush brings you to reality. I can picture Evan coming in to a room with you staning there.

    Just a comment and compliment.

    Thanks

    Ron

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  8. Paddle? What paddle? Oh, there is a paddle there, took me a while to find it.

    Thanks

    Eric

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  9. what most of us crave from a spanking is a sense of release, I suppose crying is the ultimate expression of release hence the fascination with it. I've never cried, I make do with howling a lot, thats a good release.

    Still, if a hairbrush is ever going to get any one to tears, that one you are holding has as good a chance as any!! 5 minutes of that on the bare bottom, I'd cry, I'm sure I would...promise.


    R

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  10. Wow! pretty lady,and an awesome paddle! That would bruse!

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  11. Absolutely gorgeous woman and absolutely scary paddle. Poor, lucky Evan!

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  12. By the way , besides admitting that i would love to spank your absolutly beautifull bottom. I will admit that i believe you could bring me to tears with that paddle applied to my bare bottom over your knee .

    aq

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  13. Thank you again, as always! Love the post, love the picture, love hearing from you!
    -Carl

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  15. I love your Blog Mama...Your Husband very lucky to have you! Happy Spankings

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  16. Sometimes my wife does make me shed some tears as I hop around after a hard spanking with the paddle and or the strap!. The very act of failing to go straight to the corner with hands on my head atracts more punishment after 30 minutes contemplating what is to come!I will often be sent to the study to bring her the cane which she has mastered and makes me bend down like a school boy for up to 10 stingers! I find sitting down painfull next morning and my bottom is sore for a couple of days.If we go to my or her parents house next day it soon becomes obvious to them that I have been punished and I suffer plenty of teasing and slaps from female relatives and my wife will not hold back from telling them if I did shed some tears- to my acute embarrassment!But we have a great life and I would not swop it for anything and I love her and her strictness with me and firmness in dealing with my bare bottom ! We both think you have a fantastic blog and my wife loves the way you deal with Evan! Frank

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  17. Through you frank sharing of your experiences, thoughts, ideas, feelings and pictures you have shown yourself to be a very powerful woman. Power derived from your firmness, compassion, and beauty. To me there is nothing so exciting, so arousing, as a beautiful woman, who exudes sex as you do, who exudes confidence as you do. What a lucky man your husband is to have a Goddess like you to worship.

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  18. You are one very beautiful woman! I'm just now starting to read through your blog - excellent! He's very lucky to be with you.

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  19. Please allow me to pay you a compliment regarding your pictures, especially this bikini picture. You look great.

    A couple of questions for you.
    First, do you ever place Evan in the corner prior to, or after the spankings?

    Second, do you have Evan retrieve your paddle before you start, or do you grab it yourself on the way to the chair you will sit in?

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