More of Evan on the bench

First, thank you so much for all the comments and questions. I am glad to know that my efforts to publicize our lifestyle are so well appreciated. I really appreciate your feedback, even if it's just a one liner. And I am always happy to answer your questions.

Parivash asks why I don't use a riding crop: It's mostly because I find the implements that I do use (paddles & hairbrush mostly) to be the easiest to aim, and get a strong effect in Evan. I have used a riding crop, and I like it too, but not quite as much as my paddles. I have a couple of heavy straps that I also like, but again, they aren't as easy to aim. They are good for the bench, but less good for day-to-day spankings, because I don't carry a strap in my purse with me (whereas I do carry a paddle in my purse).

George suggests that I shouldn't be too hard on Evan for yelling even more loudly when I strike him on his balls by mistake, in the course of a strapping. I agree. I was just joking about spanking him more for yelling. I actually love his yelling: it's so sincere. He doesn't fake it at all. I invite you to come and listen sometime. He does his best not to yell early on in a spanking, and just can't contain himself after only 20 or 30 seconds. It's very endearing.

Thanks to Carl and Rachel for the kind compliments.

An anonymous reader asks if I spank Evan regularly or sporadically. The answer is sporadic. Real life makes it difficult for us to stick to any regular spanking plans too carefully. I try to spank Evan over my knee every couple of weeks, and over the bench whenever I can convince him to get on there. But the more that I spank him on the bench, the less willing he seems to be to get on it. This is not too surprising, but I need a longer term plan to get him on there more regularly. I know I can do it, but real life is complex sometimes.

Anyway, keep the comments coming!

Here are some more photos of Evan getting a good spanking on our bench. These shots are after 3 minutes of lexan paddle (as shown earlier): 2 minutes with a solid wooden paddle (which we got from the Disciplinary Wives Club many years ago).


As you can see, Evan's bottom is nice and red from the lexan paddle already, and I am going low again here. The audio in this video is great: every time that I strike Evan's thighs, he yells louder and louder. It's rewarding to know that he genuinely appreciates my efforts.

Lovely ripples from a solid spank.

And another.
Even lower... I think this is the lowest that I have ever gone on his thighs. He was quite bruised afterwards for a couple of weeks.


On this last shot, you can see he has already been bruised down low on his thighs, and yet he receives a few more solid spanks down low.

Till next time,

D.