Saturday, May 1, 2010

More of Evan on the bench

First, thank you so much for all the comments and questions. I am glad to know that my efforts to publicize our lifestyle are so well appreciated. I really appreciate your feedback, even if it's just a one liner. And I am always happy to answer your questions.

Parivash asks why I don't use a riding crop: It's mostly because I find the implements that I do use (paddles & hairbrush mostly) to be the easiest to aim, and get a strong effect in Evan. I have used a riding crop, and I like it too, but not quite as much as my paddles. I have a couple of heavy straps that I also like, but again, they aren't as easy to aim. They are good for the bench, but less good for day-to-day spankings, because I don't carry a strap in my purse with me (whereas I do carry a paddle in my purse).

George suggests that I shouldn't be too hard on Evan for yelling even more loudly when I strike him on his balls by mistake, in the course of a strapping. I agree. I was just joking about spanking him more for yelling. I actually love his yelling: it's so sincere. He doesn't fake it at all. I invite you to come and listen sometime. He does his best not to yell early on in a spanking, and just can't contain himself after only 20 or 30 seconds. It's very endearing.

Thanks to Carl and Rachel for the kind compliments.

An anonymous reader asks if I spank Evan regularly or sporadically. The answer is sporadic. Real life makes it difficult for us to stick to any regular spanking plans too carefully. I try to spank Evan over my knee every couple of weeks, and over the bench whenever I can convince him to get on there. But the more that I spank him on the bench, the less willing he seems to be to get on it. This is not too surprising, but I need a longer term plan to get him on there more regularly. I know I can do it, but real life is complex sometimes.

Anyway, keep the comments coming!

Here are some more photos of Evan getting a good spanking on our bench. These shots are after 3 minutes of lexan paddle (as shown earlier): 2 minutes with a solid wooden paddle (which we got from the Disciplinary Wives Club many years ago).


As you can see, Evan's bottom is nice and red from the lexan paddle already, and I am going low again here. The audio in this video is great: every time that I strike Evan's thighs, he yells louder and louder. It's rewarding to know that he genuinely appreciates my efforts.

Lovely ripples from a solid spank.

And another.
Even lower... I think this is the lowest that I have ever gone on his thighs. He was quite bruised afterwards for a couple of weeks.


On this last shot, you can see he has already been bruised down low on his thighs, and yet he receives a few more solid spanks down low.

Till next time,

D.

10 comments:

  1. I have felt that DWC paddle and it hurts, I never felt it low on the thighs and I don't want to. These photos don't show either of you, might be a video that you could post just mute the sound. Just a though. Thanks again for your blog

    EJ

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  2. Great Blog! Wonderful pictures of a bad boy getting a spanking! He certainly is completely exposed there isn't he?
    Do you ever give him an enema or take his temperature on that spanking bench? Now that would be something to see.
    Thanks for the pictures!

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  3. Hello, Deirdre,

    I think Evan is a lucky man. Your photos are nice; they illustrate that you're spanking Evan for real.

    I'm sure that he is very sincere in his reactions indeed. :)

    Michael_Michael

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  4. Sincere in his reactions? My Dear.. if I was spanked on the bench, with that wooden paddle,
    on the thighs like Evan is getting it...... I'd be bawling my eyes out like a ten year old!!
    I know Evan yells a lot....who wouldn't? but do you ever see tears streaming down his face?
    I'm an adult man, I believe in true discipline spankings, and have received many....but have never actualy cried during one..... however, YOUR brand of discipline would almost certainly leave me sobbing uncontrolably..
    and I'm not saying that's a "bad thing". Discipline spanking have made me a better man.
    I appreciate you and Evan sharing your stories.

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  5. watliab say: Dear Deirdre, thank you for your answer,my Darling loves to give me an Regular spankings, early in the morning und what She loves is to give me the Bedtime spankings everey Evenening, then we go to Bed, sorry for my bad english

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  6. Deidre- Why don't you play the video so we can hear how hard you paddle him and hear his screaming.
    Bob

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  7. Dear D.
    I suggest you using Corp ridding once in month. This is very effective in your husband. But, you have to whipped him very hard that he learn good his lesson. I whipped my husband by corp ridding once in month and it is very good for him.
    Kiss you
    Parivash

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  8. Hi Deirdra. I love your blog. my wife has recently started using spankings to iron out issues between us. There is usually a pair of panties waiting for me outside the shower in the morning or before we go out in the evening to let me know I have a whipping coming. She likes to use either a hairbrush we purchase together or more recently a wide leather belt she wears often. Watching her undo her belt is she sexiest/scariest thing imaginable. Do you ever whip Evan with a belt? I would love to also hear about anal sex with him. Strapon?

    Thanks for your writings.

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  9. Ma'am,

    You write;
    QUOTE
    I try to spank Evan over my knee every couple of weeks, and over the bench whenever I can convince him to get on there. But the more that I spank him on the bench, the less willing he seems to be to get on it. This is not too surprising, but I need a longer term plan to get him on there more regularly. I know I can do it, but real life is complex sometimes.
    UNQUOTE

    I believe if it ever crossed my mind to refuse to go over our whipping horse - or just show reluctancy to do it quickly enough, my wife would simply threaten to call the whole spanking discipline off forever. That would have my comply within seconds!

    George

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  10. The watch in your hand is a nice touch; timing is a good discipline (pardon the pun); its easy to think you've done more than you have otherwise.

    The bench is fascinating;I've never been restrained and I think I do find the self discipline of having to stay still and take it - as you do when OTK - more rewarding but theres no doubt you get 100% effectiveness in your spankings with the bench, i don't think i coud ever stay still for those low ones without help!

    R

    R

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